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[jamsmom]

You know, I do know this too shall pass. But it reeally stinks right now. I am sorry for whining,

 

[Mishetta]

You have every right to whine & we're here for you. BUT if you need professional advice, please see a counselor. I'm so sorry for the loss & anger you feel. It's not fair how he's treating you but you show "him" that you can put your life back together again & be even better than when you were together!

Lots of {{{hugs}}} & PD being sent your way.

P.S. My son is ADHD & ODD. Not all good times, but I love him anyway!

 

[Pooh93]

Doesn't sound like whining to me. Sounds very overwhelming. I've been down like that a few times myself. Yes, it will pass....maybe not tomorrow or the next day, but you can do it and know that you can always come here to vent. Take care.

 

[helenabear]

Carol, I wish I had some great words for you, but please know you aren't whining and I am sorry that you are going through this right now {{{hugs}}}

 

[jamsmom]

You know.... Isn't in strange that internet friends who have never met me in person care more about me and my son than a man who I have been with for 8 years?

Besided the financial part that scares me, I have always been scared alone at night. The realization that I have spent 8 years working for a relationship only to find myself going back into that makes me really think maybe I was not meant for this game of love!!!

I have gotten through this stuff before....how long does it take again? About 5-10 years? I really feel like a fool for allowing myself to feel this way again and get into this situation to be hurt.

 

[SuiteDisney]

Aw, sweetie, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. (((hugs))) I know it's scary, but you're going to get through it and be better off in the end.

Now, listen carefully... any blivet brain, sack of **** who says he can't stand your son has no business in your life. That is one of the cruelest things I ever heard someone say and he's not good enough for you or your son. When you get over the hurt of breaking up, you're going to be much better off without him. There really are good men out there and your Prince Charming will be waiting. You'll find him, just don't settle for anything less.

 

[Otimon]

So sorry to hear of your difficulties. I know it is a difficult time for you. Sounds as though you and your son could use some quality time at WDW and I hope it'll be something you'll consider. It's what my husband and I did many years ago after he lost his job when our daughter was just a toddler. It was at a time when unemployment in New Haven was at an all-time high. We hopped in the car that afternoon and drove down here to get away from the stress for a while. Did us a "World" of good and helped us renew our energy to move on back home.

There will be a WDW one-day Park Hopper waiting for you and your son should you decide to join us for a while. Let me know.

Best wishes.

 

[lisajl]

Carol,

I agree with Laura. We as adults go through these things differently than kids do. If he doesn't like your son that is his loss.
He is not worth your time.

I am so sorry anyone has to go through things like this.
I always tell my kids, "Things happen for a reason".
You may not be able to see it now, but something better is waiting for you.

My something better was my DH. After a horrible relationship with a controlling man, I moved away from Ohio. Ended up in Houston and found my soul mate.

Here's hoping you stay strong through this ordeal for you and your son. Something better is coming.

{{{{Hugs}}}}

Lisajl

 

[jamsmom]

You are all so sweet. I am still cying...not sure what else to say right now.