For ambiance and pretty decent food (and great margaritas), we like San Angel at Epcot - it's our first night tradition.
For the only food even close to spicy in WDW, Sanaa at AKL Kidani - in Feb, lunch would be better so you could actually see the animals. Hold out for a window seat.
Yes, Cali Grill closed for extended refurbishment, it's on our faves list, too. We're going to try Narcoosee's instead next trip, for a similar experience (monorail, nice resort, fireworks view).