Interesting reading. There is nothing I want as a gift. I don't like getting gifts I don't want, makes me very uncomfortable. We pay for our 2 youngest kids to fly cross-country home for the holidays. Our oldest is nearby, we prefer an experience over things, such as a night out, grandson will be almost 2 so I think a zoo membership (the National zoo is free but membership covers parking and unlimited merry-go-round rides.) They get a LOT of free babysitting, I have been over there at 6 AM 3 days this week since DD is out of town for work.