Reality is that at 3, he will be just as happy doing the girl stuff as the boy stuff. With an older sister, he is most likely going to know the princesses as well as the other character and if no one tells him he is not suppose to have fun there, he will! I have all boys but their mom is a princess so they have eaten in the castle as well as other princess meals and enjoyed them all. I would do something with him while sis does BBB but it can just be going on a few rides with dad, and I would choose a more gender neutral character meal to do his birthday at (Tucker House, Chief Mickey or Garden Grill) so in 10 years when he might care.....his birthday celebration will not be toooooo pick

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