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shoegirl1020

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Just wanted to run a scenario by some of my Disney minded friends.

My mil called today to say she wasn't going to make it to x-mas dinner (partly because she just moved and partly because she hadn't shopped for the kids *due to the move). I told her absolutley to come, the kids didn't need anything. Somewhere in teh conversation I mentioned a trip to DIsney would be nice, at which point she asked the cost of our average trip. I politely told her "expensive".

Well she goes come over with small gifts she picked up at a local pharmacy. While I prepared her plate she again asked me for the cost of a Disney trip. I went into my whole sell about value v. off-site v. mod, etc. But she persisted and I gave her a price (which was the cost of our last vacation). That was it.

She called me about 10 minutes after she left and asked "If I were to write a check to you and dh which name should I use (I hypenate my last name). I told her she absolutely was not writing us a check, but gave her the requested information.

I'm pretty sure that she is going to at least contribute a hefty amount to our next, unplanned, vacation. I told dh and he disagrees.

now, a little background. Dh had not spoken to his mother in over 8 years. We just reconnected at her mom's funeral in February. Then just very sporadic phone contact, nothing for Easter. She started making appearances to our house in October of this year and we've had a good relationship. DH has 3 sisters, all of which have issues, drugs, child custody, etc. So, as dysfunctional-but who isn'tas we might be we are "the best of hte bunch"

So, my question is, are we going to DIsney?
 
If so, maybe she can come with you to continue to build a stronger relationship with your family.
 
I wouldn't count my chickens before they hatch....but I do agree with OP, it would be nice to invite her to join you if possible. I am sure time with her grandchildren (and a child she hasn't spoken with in years) would be the best holiday gift you could give her.

Good luck
 
maybe so. If you get a check,be sure to invite her along. The kids will forget the gifts she bought at the pharmacy, but they will always remember the time they took Grandma to Disney World
 

If she writes a check make sure it doesn't bounce and then decide what to do with the money. Since she's been out of your lives for 8 years, you all don't really know her all that well these days.

agnes!
 
I would say if you get the money put it aside for disney and spend alot more time with grandma. Then plan a disney trip and ask her to come.
 












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