If you can get it, CRT for breakfast is absolutely magical. It took me 5 trips to finally get it, but arriving early at the park, entering the palace, hearing the princesses announced one by one, visiting with them,etc... was wonderful. We went last year and my daughters (10, 13, 14) were absolutely enchanted. Even my husband loved it. We all enjoyed the wishing ceremony. The girls typically receive magic wands, my DD10 requested a sword. We all received wishing stars. Afterwards, we ended up in place for the rope drop at Fantasyland. It was so much fun.
My other girly breakfast is the Supercalifragalistic breakfast at 1900 Park Fair. Alice and the Mad Hatter are there and Mary Poppins hosts the breakfast. The Mad Hatter is a huge hit as he is very funny. My oldest was only 8 the first time we visited and I'll never forget the moment that she met Mary Poppins. Katie gazed up at MP and asked, "Mary Poppins, are you really practically perfect in every way?" I was so touched that I didn't even pay attention to the response which I'm sure was in character. Last year, my youngest wanted to have her picture taken with MP and Bert on Main Street. The cast member in charge decided that MP needed to move to a different location. Without hesitating, MP took Libby by the hand and walked her to the new spot while they chit chatted. Libby asked Mary Poppins if she could say supercalifragalistic backwards. MP said of course she could and recited it without any hesitation. So fun...
Crystal Palace was absolutely beautiful, but I felt a little rushed. It's very busy, but it is lots of fun to see Pooh and friends. It's probably the prettiest restaurant for pictures (after CRT).
Really, you can't go wrong with your breakfasts. Your girls will have so much fun regardless of where you go and you'll have wonderful pictures to prove it.