Since moving in with DD and her family in 2004, DD's IL's come over, we have all kinds of food and goodies that you can just "pick up and eat" (no "dinners" or anything); I read my yearly revised version of "The Night Before Christmas" for everyone; we play Christmas music; DGD usually puts on some kind of wacky show for us - singing and dancing - and we play games..
Before my DH passed away (before I sold our house), we used to have a huge Christmas Eve party every year with family and friends.. Christmas Eve was always hosted in that house - since it was the house I grew up in and back then my parents used to host the party every year..

Before my DH passed away (before I sold our house), we used to have a huge Christmas Eve party every year with family and friends.. Christmas Eve was always hosted in that house - since it was the house I grew up in and back then my parents used to host the party every year..


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I love it! I make a huge dinner as all the boys on DH's side are monsters, all of them 6'2" and bigger! We eat and eat and eat (I make tenderloin and turkey) open a few gifts, watch the dogs play (there will be 5 this year!) and watch It's a Wonderful Life. It is a lot of work leading up to the day but it leaves Christmas Day allto ourselves to open presents and eat left overs..yea!
). The kids get to each open once present, as someone else said, usually from each other (and they buy with the intent of "passing time til we can open more presents"). A little reading of Night Before Christmas, maybe a fun Christmas movie too (Santa Clause current fave). Then kids to bed in Christmas jammies and mom and dad go frantically wrap presents and hope Santa isn't bringing something that requires assembly, cognitive function in the wee hours when the kids get up!

