We leave just in a few days, and it happens to be my daughter's birthday while we are there. Not to cause a stir among the other kids (as they were beginning to think "why does SHE get to go to Disney for her birthday????") we have decided to give them each a special meal. The birthday girl gets a meal with the princesses for her birthday, our oldest daughter a meal at Rainforest Cafe for being 5 years cancer free, and our son a meal at ESPN Grill for good grades. Should we let the host/hostess know at each place? Will they do anything special??