Our beloved Westie, Minnie, died last year at 13 years of age. She was by far the best dog I have ever owned (shhhhh don't tell the Maltipoo on my lap). We got her as a young puppy when my kids were 9, 5, and newborn. I cannot say that she was loyal to any one of us, but she did prefer me, but I was the one who took care of her all the time. She was NOT a barker at all, but I have heard that from others about their Westie. That can be trained out in many ways though. The only thing that she did which I would categorize as annoying was when she was a puppy, she did like to dig. I solved that by following her outside for a few days and just saying " NO" each time she dug. She was bright, easily trained, and never chewed. I miss her still. Good Luck! In case you are wondering, I was not going to get another dog. My oldest, now 24, bought this Maltipoo... she is adorable and loving... but much tougher to train. Likes to dig too!