Weird Question

[DISNEY*lover]

So, I've been working at my new job for almost a year now and still no benefits. I asked how many people are left and come to find out there's a hand full of people in front of me. They're waiting for people with benefits to quit then they distribute the benefits.

Now I have asthma, heart problems run in the family, I'm anemic, and I have the weakest immune system ever. So with that on my hands, DF and I are thinking about I guess kind of eloping so I can get benefits through his job and still having our DFTW in September '09. Would that make our DFTW a vow renewal now or...?

 

[lurkyloo]

Technically, yes. The only difference is that Disney would not need to see the license to marry, they'd need to see the proof of marriage (I guess - I mean, I dunno if any of our vow-renewing DISers have actually been asked to produce this... ).

Apparently lots of people do this. There was a thread a couple of months ago about it and people were coming out of the woodwork to say they were actually already married and their Disney "wedding" would be a vow renewal. You're in good company!

 

[DISNEY*lover]

Hmmm good to know. Thanks Carrie! I wonder if it's any different from the wishes weddings...

 

[ElleBren]

Its really no different than a wedding. I mean DFTW didn't ask for a copy of our marriage certificate. I offered and they said that the reverend really was the one who needed it. It doesn't change the price or anything.

We treated our renewal as our "real" wedding since we eloped on a beach in NJ. You can make it whatever you want it to be,