So, earlier this year I had a CT scan. The Dr's office contracts another company to do the CT scans in house, but then handles the billing.
I know I have a $1500 deductible, and keep calling to try to pay this bill. I get $98 charges here, $200 there, but never the CT scan bill. I have my credit card in hand and am TRYING to pay them, but nothing.
So today I get a nasty collections call for $1100. DH says to let him handle it. He calls the collections company, and armed with their information, calls the doctors office back and says, "We have a misunderstanding here, and by the way, please contact me with this stuff in the future as my wife has just been diagnosed with cancer."
The woman agrees to look into it, and calls my husband back in a manner he describes as 'very emotional or crying.' She says no one ever diplomatically tries to resolve mistakes and people just call her yelling and screaming, so she will just write off the $1100.
I'm confused. We have the ability to pay this bill, and my DH made it clear that we had no intention of dodging it. Is this wrong somehow? I just can't get past 'but if we owe it, we should pay it." Our financial adviser says it's no different than anyone else wanting to help us out because we are nice people and handing us $1000 on the street to help with my medical bills.
I know I have a $1500 deductible, and keep calling to try to pay this bill. I get $98 charges here, $200 there, but never the CT scan bill. I have my credit card in hand and am TRYING to pay them, but nothing.
So today I get a nasty collections call for $1100. DH says to let him handle it. He calls the collections company, and armed with their information, calls the doctors office back and says, "We have a misunderstanding here, and by the way, please contact me with this stuff in the future as my wife has just been diagnosed with cancer."
The woman agrees to look into it, and calls my husband back in a manner he describes as 'very emotional or crying.' She says no one ever diplomatically tries to resolve mistakes and people just call her yelling and screaming, so she will just write off the $1100.
I'm confused. We have the ability to pay this bill, and my DH made it clear that we had no intention of dodging it. Is this wrong somehow? I just can't get past 'but if we owe it, we should pay it." Our financial adviser says it's no different than anyone else wanting to help us out because we are nice people and handing us $1000 on the street to help with my medical bills.



Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes.