We have been to all different kinds of weddings... Fancy, Black tie events for 3 days... to Back Yard, shorts and T-shirts, bring a cooler, and a covered dish... and everything in between.
As a guest I just go with the flow... whatever the couple has chosen to celebrate their day is fine by me...
I think that most fun wedding we went to is when our biker friends tied the knot... It was an all out party... with a little ceremony thrown in... the Groom came up to the wedding with the groomsmen, all on their Harley's... all these biker men in Tux's was pretty cool to see... Beards and Tux's who knew that would become a thing...
The place that the wedding was out in the woods, I thought we were lost on the way out there... it was crazy, we were out in the middle on now where, and the land had a what I only can describe as huge barn structure, with a huge commercial kitchen, and bathrooms that you would see in a stadium, 10 or 12 stalls,and sink in the women restroom... a huge common area, that have table set up, and and up stairs some bedrooms, if I remember there were 10 bedrooms... which we were given one of these to stay in that night... which was really nice, and had its own private bathroom.. there were campers, tents set up out in the field, along with port-a-potties.
It was outside at sunset, simple everyone sitting in lawn or camp chairs, nothing formal at all... Watching them say their vows to each other, and speaking from the heart was simply touching... then the party started... I really can't tell you how many people came and went that night, I think somewhere around 300 + and somehow I ended up being in charge of the food, buffet table and kitchen... friends and family were all pitching in... I was happy and honored to do it for them. They had all the touches and traditions that make it a wedding, just done their way...We dance all night long, outside under the stars... some friends of theirs have a band and played all night...
My friend the bride who I worked with, asked me if I would make the baked beans for the wedding, which I gladly did.. I made 3 super large Turkey size foil pans full of baked beans full to the top, at the last minute the girl that was suppose to make the coleslaw daughter went into labor so I made 3 pans of coleslaw as well... I had to borrow a another mandolin and put DH, and DD to work shredding the cabbage, and carrots...
They cooked 2 pigs in the ground, Plus the beef that was on the grill, commercial size grill, and they were frying chicken and fish in a outside deep fryer's, oh I almost forgot they were roasting corn on the cob on another grill... There was potato salad, macaroni/pasta salads, coleslaw, baked beans, green bean casserole, black-eyed peas, green beans, yellow rice with green peas, some kinda stir-fry veggie, biscuits, corn bread, rolls.... I know that there was more... I honestly have never seen so much food in my life... and people just kept coming all night with food, desserts, drinks... We started cleaning up around 1:30 in the morning... and there wasn't a bite of food left over... everyone just started helping, the guys tackled the outside trash, and a few of us loaded the dish washers with all the dishes and severing utensils...
At 3:00 am we finally went to bed.
The next morning we woke up to the smell of breakfast cooking, for those of us that stayed in the barn... Someone had emptied the dish washers, and set all of it out on the tables for people to pick up, as well someone set anything that was left like camp chairs, and such folded up outside... with a sign that said either take it with you or it belongs to the barn...
I have a picture of DH and I outside under the stars slowing dancing, and one of DH manning one of the grills with his master grilling face on, and of me in the kitchen surrounded by all the food, directing whoever to what to do... DH calls it my Boss look on my face... LOL
Good times for sure...