HeidiGW
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 2, 2007
Just wow. Great trip planned. And, I am so sorry for the horrific experience your family had to endure.
I think it is absolutely the right call to get out and about asap. Disney is the perfect place for it, too.
I have always had a very safe feeling at WDW. So many friendly castmembers, cameras, good transportation, most of the guests are great....It has been a place where all three of my older children have had the opportunity to spread their wings, so to speak. I really think age 12-13 nowadays is the age to develop a sense of confidence navigating in public. I know 18-years-old who go to college and are somewhat fearful given that they have almost never been anywhere without their parents. Given your special emotional circumstances, I think it is necessary.
Especially considering your son knows his way around the parks, I believe they will be OK. Slap on some sunscreen, make sure the phones are charged, go in and turn them loose.
I don't think you mentioned if you are on any sort of DDP, if so make sure they understand what they can/should do with it for meals and snacks. I would let them have charging priviliages (obviously, within reason/set amount/number of items/whatever). I know a lot of folks do the gift cards, but imnsho it is just one more thing they can lose. Their phones and shades/hats are more than enough to keep track of....the magic bands are so great, might as well use them!
And, I would let them eat a few meals on their own, too. Or at least order and meet them when they are seated. This is from experience where I have failed. I have 17 and 19-year-olds who can fly across the country solo, but hate ordering their own food. Like are afraid to talk to the cashier...Weird. (The other two, one older and one significantly younger, have no issues.)
We went with friends when our now 26-year old was 15 and the other teens were 14 & 13. With a little hesitation, we let them leave MK and go to EP solo. They didn't want to eat dinner at the castle with us. Nuts, I know. No cell phones for the kids then. They had a blast eating around WS, etc. The dads went and "picked them up" at midnight and did EMH Soarin and TT, getting back 1:30 am. Of all the fun things we have ever done, those now-adults STILL talk about that night as the best night ever.
Please post about your trip when you get back. Wishing you the best, and hope you get some pixie dust!!!
I think it is absolutely the right call to get out and about asap. Disney is the perfect place for it, too.
I have always had a very safe feeling at WDW. So many friendly castmembers, cameras, good transportation, most of the guests are great....It has been a place where all three of my older children have had the opportunity to spread their wings, so to speak. I really think age 12-13 nowadays is the age to develop a sense of confidence navigating in public. I know 18-years-old who go to college and are somewhat fearful given that they have almost never been anywhere without their parents. Given your special emotional circumstances, I think it is necessary.
Especially considering your son knows his way around the parks, I believe they will be OK. Slap on some sunscreen, make sure the phones are charged, go in and turn them loose.
I don't think you mentioned if you are on any sort of DDP, if so make sure they understand what they can/should do with it for meals and snacks. I would let them have charging priviliages (obviously, within reason/set amount/number of items/whatever). I know a lot of folks do the gift cards, but imnsho it is just one more thing they can lose. Their phones and shades/hats are more than enough to keep track of....the magic bands are so great, might as well use them!
And, I would let them eat a few meals on their own, too. Or at least order and meet them when they are seated. This is from experience where I have failed. I have 17 and 19-year-olds who can fly across the country solo, but hate ordering their own food. Like are afraid to talk to the cashier...Weird. (The other two, one older and one significantly younger, have no issues.)
We went with friends when our now 26-year old was 15 and the other teens were 14 & 13. With a little hesitation, we let them leave MK and go to EP solo. They didn't want to eat dinner at the castle with us. Nuts, I know. No cell phones for the kids then. They had a blast eating around WS, etc. The dads went and "picked them up" at midnight and did EMH Soarin and TT, getting back 1:30 am. Of all the fun things we have ever done, those now-adults STILL talk about that night as the best night ever.
Please post about your trip when you get back. Wishing you the best, and hope you get some pixie dust!!!