WBRepo-Ship of Thieves-Remember the Magic Pt 19

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Oh Holly, how awful! Tell Jan how sorry I am and that I am thinking of her. She and Dave are the type of people you instantly love when you meet them. Such a lovely couple.

Hang in there with Tyler. Things will work out. You have an incredible amount of strength!:hug:

Thanks Donna. Please don't mention to Jan that I shared her info publicly. I just share here because its such a caring group. And yes, she and Dave are both wonderful! He cracks me up! :)
 
I got this in an e-mail:


WORRY

Is there an imaginary cut off period when
offspring become accountable
for their own actions?
Is there some wonderful moment when
parents can become detached spectators in
the lives of their children and shrug,
'It's Their life,' and feel nothing?

When I was in my twenties,
I stood in a hospital corridor
waiting for doctors to put a few stitches
in my daughter's head and I asked,
'When do you stop worrying?'
The nurse said,
'When they get out of the accident stage..'
My Parents just smiled faintly
and said nothing.

When I was in my thirties,
I sat on a little chair in a classroom
and heard how one of my children
talked incessantly, disrupted the class,
and was headed for a career
making license plates.
As if to read my mind, a teacher said,
'Don't worry, they all go through this stage
and then you can sit back,
relax and enjoy them.'
My Parents just smiled faintly
and said nothing.

When I was in my forties,
I spent a lifetime waiting
for the phone to ring,
the cars to come home,
the front door to open.
A friend said,
'They're trying to find themselves.
'Don't worry!
In a few years, they'll be adults.
'They'll be off on their own
they'll be out of your hair'
My Parents just smiled faintly
And said nothing.

By the time I was 50,
I was sick & tired of being vulnerable.
I was still worrying over my children,
but there was a new wrinkle..
Even though they were on their own
I continued to anguish over their failures,
be tormented by their frustrations and
absorbed in their disappointments..
and there was nothing I could do about it.
My Parents just smiled faintly
and said nothing.

My friends said that
when my kids got married
I could stop worrying
and lead my own life.
I wanted to believe that,
but I was haunted by my parent's warm smiles
and their occasional,
'You look pale. Are you all right' ?
'Call me the minute you get home'.
Are you depressed about something?'

My friends said that
when I became a grandparent
that I would get to enjoy
the happy little voices yelling
Grandma! Papa!
But now I find that I worry
just as much about the little kids
as the big ones.
How can anyone cope
with all this Worry?

Can it be that parents are sentenced
to a lifetime of worry?
Is concern for one another
handed down like a torch
to blaze the trail of human frailties
and the fears of the unknown?
Is concern a curse or is it
a virtue that elevates us
to the highest form of earthly creation?

Recently, one of my own children
became quite irritable, saying to me,
'Where were you?
I've been calling for 3 days,
and no one answered
I was worried.'
I smiled a warm smile.
The torch has been passed.

PASS IT ON TO OTHER WONDERFUL PARENTS
(And also to your children...that's the fun part)
 

Oh Holly, how awful! Tell Jan how sorry I am and that I am thinking of her. She and Dave are the type of people you instantly love when you meet them. Such a lovely couple.

Hang in there with Tyler. Things will work out. You have an incredible amount of strength!:hug:

As always, Donna's right ::yes::

:hug: to Donna!! :flower3:
Hope you and Harry are having good days! :goodvibes
 
Hi Jan! That email you posted was great. Thanks for posting it. I worry constantly so I can sure relate to it.

Holly, don't worry...I won't say anything to Jan about her COPD. I rarely communicate with her. Just a rare pm now and then. I do think of her often as we shared some good times with her and Dave on DCL. Good memories.:goodvibes
 
:wave: all!!

Sorry I've been MIA the last few days...Tuesdays & Wednesdays are my "normal" busy days as I'm in charge of dealing with the new emails that come in. I've neglected my chats w/ Michelle (through IM) as well.

Today should be a bit better.

:hug::hug::hug::hug: to those who need it...and those who just want them :goodvibes
 
Yup.. she has... ::yes::::yes::::yes::

but I know she's been swamped...


I'm going to go through my sock drawer today... If I'm not out in a little while... will someone come and search through the Mt Everest of socks to find me!!! :lmao:
 
Don't anybody mention this over on facebook (not common knowledge at work)....but I just got an award at work with a juicy cash prize! While I'll probably just pass it along to Visa (technically to DCL), I might buy a little treat for myself...like maybe a Disneyland ANNUAL PASS!!! :woohoo:

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Deb, it just gets better and better every year! Good luck with your mission! :thumbsup2

Thanks Jackie. I leave one week from today and I'm so ready to go. My clothes are already packed. Just gotta do the last minute stuff, the bathroom bag and the leg wrap bag. That's all quick and easy....just grab and go.

I just realized that as of next spring, I will have sailed from Spain to Hawaii (with a detour to Alaska and some zig-zaggy time in the Caribbean). That's pretty amazing! If someone had told me this six years ago I never would have believed it. Thanks to all my cruise pals who helped make some of these adventures possible! :grouphug:

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Don't forget the Panama Canal in your travels. That's when all this started.....with our family of Thieves!!! I have to agree that it's so amazing. I never thought I would be able to travel to places where I have been to with DCL. I still have not gotten overseas yet, but I will. In the meantime, I never would have taken a plane to Alaska and stayed in a hotel there. Because of my friends, I cruised there and I'm so very thankful to all of you for chosing it. I loved it. And I loved doing it with all of you!! Onward now to Hawaii!!!!

 
Thanks Deb. Unfortunately, I haven't yet found any chores around the house that he doesn't like to do, because he likes cleaning so much. He enjoys it all because it's calming and soothing, no matter how yucky the job. He's backwards in that regard. But schoolwork is his enemy, especially writing and math, so that's why I picked those.

The money thing, I did warn him last school year that I would do that next time, but it's surely not fresh in his mind, so a warning for next time. Thanks! :hug:

The first month of school "honeymoon phase" is over. Back to reality. This was his 2nd rough week, but first out of school suspension this school year. He partially did the right thing though, so I do have to acknowledge that. When the kids were lining up to come in from recess, a boy shoved Tyler out of line and then punched him (I have no idea whether Tyler did something to instigate this), Tyler shoved the boy back and then went to get 2 adults to help. It has taken all these years for him to finally remember to go get help and not just start punching back, so that part is good, but where he went wrong is not stepping back to let the adults do their jobs and handle it, he still jumped in and punched the kid.

It's a tough call. On one hand, you don't want your kid to be a punching bag and labeled a tattler by the other kids, but on the other hand, rules are rules because if this happened as adults, they'd both go to jail. Hard lessons.

You're doing such a great job. Just know that you are teaching him to be the best person that he can possibly be and that's a good thing. He's a kid, of course he's going to screw up, but that doesn't mean you can slack in doing your job of teaching him what's right and what's wrong. And that it's not enough to know the difference.....his actions have to show the difference. Maybe he could write that some time.....I know what's right and wrong, but my actions have to show it. Next time make it 50 times not 100. Remember that it's harder for him. 50 times for him is like 500 times for other kids. .....Just my thoughts. You're a great mom and you have a great kid, so don't listen to me.
 
I wonder if I can get the police to come scare the tar out of him. My head is pounding from the screaming tantrum that's been going on for 2 hours now after writing 6 sentences. "I'm not doing this and you can't make me". How do you make a 100 pound 5 ft tall strong kid do something?!?! I'd like to knock him into next week, but of course I can't do that. I'm sitting on my hands to literally keep from lashing out. I fully expect the neighbors to call the police because of how loud he is. No exaggerating. :headache:

Stay strong mom, you know you're doing the right thing. In the end he has to see that you're in charge not him. Hey, at least his tantrums happen less often now. That's an improvement.
 
Don't anybody mention this over on facebook (not common knowledge at work)....but I just got an award at work with a juicy cash prize! While I'll probably just pass it along to Visa (technically to DCL), I might buy a little treat for myself...like maybe a Disneyland ANNUAL PASS!!! :woohoo:

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YEAHHHHHHHH for you earning and receiving an award at work. YEAHHHHHHHHHHHH that it's a good sum of cash!!!!!!!!!!!!

The economy must be turning around. I remember when you had to take unpaid days off. I'm glad it has turned around for you. You certainly deserve it!!!!!
 
Today I'm procrastinating doing my buget and paying bills. I have to get things done in advance because I won't be here at the end of the month. I'll be at the happiest place on earth! I would much rather be there than here right now.
 
I'm still recouperating from Wednesday.....all in one day I had a blood test, flu shot and wound doctor. That wiped me out for a bit. I feel better today.
 
Don't anybody mention this over on facebook (not common knowledge at work)....but I just got an award at work with a juicy cash prize! While I'll probably just pass it along to Visa (technically to DCL), I might buy a little treat for myself...like maybe a Disneyland ANNUAL PASS!!! :woohoo:

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:cool1::banana::yay::woohoo::dance3::cheer2:
 
Don't forget the Panama Canal in your travels. That's when all this started.....with our family of Thieves!!! I have to agree that it's so amazing. I never thought I would be able to travel to places where I have been to with DCL. I still have not gotten overseas yet, but I will. In the meantime, I never would have taken a plane to Alaska and stayed in a hotel there. Because of my friends, I cruised there and I'm so very thankful to all of you for chosing it. I loved it. And I loved doing it with all of you!! Onward now to Hawaii!!!!


Deb - she can't forget the PC cruise...1st of all, we won't let her :rotfl: & 2nd she needed to go through the canal to get to Alaska & Hawaii :rotfl2:
 
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