wat do you do?!?!?

[skeeterbuge]

Wat do you do when your BFF'S Dont like the person u r dating and they dont think u r right for eachother and they think he is going to break ur heart in the end??

PLEASE LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINION ON THIS THANKS!!!!

 

[DISKATER69]

Just consider it a little bit. If you can think of a good reason that they are right then you shouldn't get to close to the person. But if they just seem jealous or anything you shouldn't worry about it they will get over it. I don't know because I wasn't there so thats up to you to decide. Is that the guy that you wanted help to know if he liked you?

 

[skeeterbuge]

thanks i could tell it was u when i looked at ur picture and i took ur advice and just asked him out and he made me wait all day for the answer

 

[JulielovesDisney]

if all of my friends didn't like my bf, i'd take a step back and try to figure out if there's really something wrong with him that i'm being ignorant to. if there is, then i'd talk to him, see if the problem or whatever fixes itself, or depending on how bad it is, i might break up with him.

i consider my friends and family to be my unbiased eyes in these kinds of things. my perception of a person may be clouded because i'm infatuated with him. so i could misjudge him, but my friends and family can see what's really wrong with him.

 

[Princess Brittany]

I know how you feel!! Every guy I like my friends always say something wrong about him!

 

[skeeterbuge]

I know how you feel!! Every guy I like my friends always say something wrong about him!

they have liked every ones else i have dated it is just this one and wat have u done about it?????

 

[skeeterbuge]

if all of my friends didn't like my bf, i'd take a step back and try to figure out if there's really something wrong with him that i'm being ignorant to. if there is, then i'd talk to him, see if the problem or whatever fixes itself, or depending on how bad it is, i might break up with him.

i consider my friends and family to be my unbiased eyes in these kinds of things. my perception of a person may be clouded because i'm infatuated with him. so i could misjudge him, but my friends and family can see what's really wrong with him.

thanks i will defenatly take this in to consideration

 

[HouseMD1120]

Consider their reasons for not liking him. If they seem legit, reconsider your relationship with him. I'm assuming that you're in middle/high school, and chances are that your friendships will last longer than relationships at this stage. So stay true to your friends.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'd consider their reasons, and they didn't make sense to me, I'd tell them it's fine if they don't like him, because they're not the ones who have to spend time with him.

I dunno, I'm one of those people who the next time I have a boyfriend, I'm not going to be sharing him as much with my friends.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I was just in this position.
Only it was with a crush.
Nobody liked him and they all told me he would break my heart or bring me into some bad things that he does. It hurt a lot, because I liked him a lot.
But I did listen to them. It was for the better. I think he had a girlfriend about 2 or 3 times throughout the period that I liked him and that he "liked" me.
Player much?

 

[MickeyisBeast]

There is a reason your friends feel this way. And you need to remember, your BFF's should come first. ALWAYS. Because you don't want to loose your friends. Listen to what your BFF's have to say and then work it out with them. Just always always always remember, friends are way more important than a guy. (IMO)

 

[Mandy91]

There is a reason your friends feel this way. And you need to remember, your BFF's should come first. ALWAYS. Because you don't want to loose your friends. Listen to what your BFF's have to say and then work it out with them. Just always always always remember, friends are way more important than a guy. (IMO)

I think it's sad how many girls leave their friends in the dust when a guy comes around. Who will be there if you get your heart broken? Won't be the guy.
I would at least listen to them and consider their concerns, your friends usually have your best interest in mind and just don't want to see you get hurt. Ask them why they feel the way they do, talk it out with them. Especially if they've been fine with everyone else you've dated. Your friends might be able to see things from outside the box that you don't.

 

[skeeterbuge]

I think it's sad how many girls leave their friends in the dust when a guy comes around. Who will be there if you get your heart broken? Won't be the guy.
I would at least listen to them and consider their concerns, your friends usually have your best interest in mind and just don't want to see you get hurt. Ask them why they feel the way they do, talk it out with them. Especially if they've been fine with everyone else you've dated. Your friends might be able to see things from outside the box that you don't.

ik they should but every time i bring it up they dont want to talk about it and ik that ur friends always come before everyone else cause they r the ones who will help u when u get hurt. thanks for reminding me of it tho!!