Saw a few Disney commercials on TV, getting out my Disney holiday decorations and started thinking

, hmmmm, we need to get back there. So I come back to the trip planning forum to get excited and unfortunately remembered how it is now.
Instead of making reservations at a resort and dining for whenever we can go, I need to research park availability for all
18 people in my group, some of who will end up
arriving on different days and staying for
various lengths of time. Then, rather than let folks buy their tickets at the gate when they arrive,
nothing at all can happen until tickets are purchased months/year in advance.
Ah for the days of reserving a room, restaurant and showing up for the fun! Just getting fast passes, instead staring at your phone all day hoping your service is good and you get chosen for various rides, etc.
Does anyone here think these is ANY CHANCE they will stop this madness?


Madness gone by a spring trip? No.
Group of 18 = nightmare if you are trying to do it yourself. Don't take it on in full. I would consider a TA and let each group work direct with them after you give them the overall plan.
I would have a family meeting if in same location, if not I'd start a family group on facebook or somewhere to share info on hotels and any other pertinent info. Stress all the important things that must be done. Settle on range of dates.
I suggest every group book their own hotel directly for their dates, and arrange all transportation to that hotel. You could do legwork on best options and prices at each level.
I would have a discussion on overlapping days on parks you'd all like to be in together and then stress - BUY TICKETS & MAKE PARK RESERVATIONS ASAP. The actual act of buying those tickets will test a groups commitment to actually go.
ADR for 18 will be tough, maybe that is where you need to study the most and possibly have to make the phone call. Hoop Dee Doo might be a good option, Biergarten, direct calls to Disney Springs restaurants. But I would focus on park time together, splitting up for dining or choosing a quick serve with lots of tables off hours.
One thing we have loved to do with our large family groups is a water park day. Get there at opening and find an area with plenty of room and just have a great day together.
Our best big group trips has been PLANNED with flexibility. Everyone knew, it's okay to do your own thing sometimes:
- Staying at whatever hotel was in our budget and comfort, gave us private family time too.
- We never tried to meet at park opening. No pressure on folks getting up early, rushing a breakfast etc. We always set up a meeting time mid-morning. No one is waiting around either.
- Try to meet up for stuff like Fantasmic, Parade, Fireworks etc. Pick an early time and place. Fun to sit with all and visit/snack while waiting. Great way to end your day.
- Be okay if some want to take afternoon breaks at pool or nap. We had a trip where I guess they didn't want to tell us they wanted to leave so there was this sudden "kids need to go" as we stood there feeling quite awkward (we thought we were heading to an early QS dinner). They could have just told us their plans and allowed us to make other plans - if we knew we would have booked an ADR.
I've lost money helping so my rule is now I will not put out any cash, any deposit, any credit card hold etc because it never fails folks, for whatever reason, change their mind. Too often they don't get the restrictions that come with it, and the money Iost. Let everyone handle their own money transactions.