Bob,
Here's my two cents:
- don't buy something too soon
- don't make a quick decision
- don't get more than your vehicle can handle
- don't get something that doesn't have a local dealer nearby for support
You didn't mention how many campers you have to provide shelter for (kids/how many and how old) and spouse (interested in camping too or strictly a Holiday Inn type).
Get enough space (big tent/pop-up/hybrid) that will accomodate your people now and in the future. For example, we have 3 kids and when we bought our Jayco they were all little; now the two boys are teenagers and bigger than me. We bought a highwall with the slide out dinette and king/queen beds. We didn't need that much space initially but now that they're bigger it is handy. Wife demanded an interior potty for those #1 night visits (not portable but the built in option with the shower <never used it>). I got my a/c unit so I can chill at the beach in July and August.
Some people are the type that "progress up the ladder". They start with a tent, then go with a pop-up, move to a travel trailer or hybrid, then a fifth wheel, then maybe a big class A RV (bus type). Some people "pick their spot" and stay there (me with the pop-up) or move up maybe one spot (there may be a hybrid in my future someday but no rush now). What type are you?
When our kids were little (3-7) we took the ol' Scout tent and did family campouts at state parks near the house so we could go on short notice in the spring or fall when the weather was nice. They had a great experience and love going.
Here's some do's: do involve as much as you can those that will be going with you (kids/spouse) in selecting features, options, or places to go; do make the camping trips fun for everyone (wife wants to eat out once or twice, kids want to take their bikes, I take my satellite dish to watch college football).
Bama ED