Congrats! We're celebrating the same anniversary for the same reason. We're still in the honeymoon phase of our marriage, but I thought our children would be the absolute perfect ages (7, 5 and 2) to really enjoy participating in our "wedding", since they missed out on the original one

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Here's our budget: $4000 for the Escape wedding package, $200 for the officiant, $100 for a rose wand and petal basket for our girls, $25 for the sand ceremony, and $2000 for a private room and dinner at the California Grill. Our dinner is expensive because that's the minimum for a private room, but you can spend whatever you want at any of the resort restaurants. We're substituting Randy Chapman for the included Disney photographer (about $500) and substituting an iPod set up for the included violinist ($250).
We're doing some unusual stuff at our V.R because we want to make it more about a celebration of our whole family, instead of just us. Our son (best man) will be in a Jack Sparrow costume, our middle daughter will be in a Cinderella costume and our baby daughter will be in a Tinkerbell costume. I'm wearing a yellow ballgown (a la Belle) and my husband is wearing a formal Indian suit with turban (a la Alladin). We're not exchanging rings. Instead I found these silver pendants with an abstract family-of-5 and we're going to put them on our kids to symbolize that forever bond. And we're doing a sand ceremony with all 5 of us. Our guests are only our parents, siblings and their families.
Ours is coming up in a few months and it's doubly exciting because it will be our first trip to Disney, so we feel like we're exposing the kids to WDW with a real bang!
Jil