One suggestion for those thinking about V&A who are not adventurous eaters. It's better to book the main dining room than the chef's table.
The chef's table is all about adventurous eating. Over the years, at the chef's table, we've eaten conch, quail, poached quail's egg, caviar, pork belly, sweetbreads, foie gras and outstanding (but quite rare) wagyu beef, to name but a few interesting and yummy delicacies. We've loved it all.
No doubt, they can adjust the chef's table courses to vegetarian, non-seafood eater, etc., but I would think that would be kind of a waste of money. Might as well pay less and eat what you like in the main dining room.