well lets see...
DBF and I went to celebrate our 2 year anniversary. I called ahead of time and made sure they knew it was our anniversary, so they printed special menus for us indicating the celebration.
Then I called the Vic and A's office and requested that the harp player learn the moulin rouge version of come what may.
Then I ordered a celebration cake for desert.
The meal was fantastic, the atmosphere was superb, the harp player played our song, and the service was excellent. As with any area in Disney, we were treated the same as everyone else, but here I felt even more secure because of the small, quiet environment. That place is sound proof. The only time we ever heard anything in the noisy lobby was when the door was opened.
This was on xmas eve 2007 btw. We unfortunately had to hurry through desert and celebration because we had booked a wishes fireworks cruise for after dinner.
interestingly enough, there was another gay couple celebrating somewhere in the range of 20 years. They appeared to be regulars every year and were quite friendly with the wait staff and cook.
All in all, if you can throw down the bills, it's an excellent experience.