Venting, venting, need a friendly ear

New England Eeyore

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I should be watching Grey's right now but I'm taping it because I can't focus. I had a lovely 3 days off from work, a lovely trip down to CT to some scrapping shopping and attend a business meeting and I return home to utter chaos. :crazy:

Home - my youngest DSD, 13, (formerly known as "the good one" :angel: ) is having some sort of war with her mother and my DH and I are caught in the crossfire. I won't even post the details because it's so insanely bizzare, but she's here for the weekend and we're attempting to broker a ceasefire amongst the parties. Wish us luck.

Work - I got a call from my partner that in my absence one of my staff members, who has been having some attendance and attitude issues, has just not shown up for work the past 2 days. No calls, nothing. We are a bit understaffed to begin with so being down a person creates a disaster. So I am walking back into work tomorrow to utter chaos trying to catch up from the past couple of days, down a person (because even if she shows up, at this point, she's done) and having to figure out how we replace her. I'm the manager of the department but I can't hire or fire anyone, so I need to get my boss to come up with a solution and fast. We had talked about theoretical solutions because she was kind of a chronic problem but now all of a sudden its an emergency. And I only have 4 more work days before my vacation which is a big YAY but I only have 4 more work days to come up with some kind of fix. I have a headache!!! :faint:

Thanks for listening. My DH had gone to bed when my partner called and I needed to vent before my head exploded! :furious:



But on a good note - for months I was never able to get to the second page of smilies with my computer - I don't know why. I just tried it and tonight I can! I'll take whatever good news I can get right now! :tigger: :maleficen :sulley: :stitch: :simba: :dumbo: :goofy: :figment:
 
((Hugs)))
I so know where you are coming from in being caught in the cross fire!!! WE have dealt with that here too!
As for the no calls, no shows..not good... I hope you get things resolved quickly!!!
 

:wizard: :wizard: :grouphug: Lots of hugs and pixie dust coming your way!! I hope things get better fast!!! :thumbsup2
 
I know all about venting. I hope it made you feel a little bit better. :) We too are in the the middle of a crazy family battle (with my father in law's family) and it is not fun. Hopefully, you'll be able to resolve the issue soon.

Take a deep breath before going into work. Remain calm. Let everyone else panic. :rolleyes1

Here's a hug. :grouphug:
 
oh, sorry...I just saw this!!

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: hugs and prayers that things settle down quickly!!!! Hang in there!! :grouphug:
 
Also just saw this. Here is another :grouphug: and hopes that you are able to go on vacation with some peace.
 
AHHH, families are like fudge, you know. Mostly sweet, but full of nuts!

I am so sorry about both the office and family situations. We are a bit understaffed at the office as well - on the architectural side. But fortunately, we have some good folks who really try (we had already weeded out those who didn't).

Hope it gets better!
 
Sorry to hear things are soo crazy. I have a DSD too. If you need to talk about anything with that situation fell free to PM me. Sometimes just having someone who can understand the bizarreness of all the relationships involved in that is helpful.
 
MyLittlePiglet said:
Sorry to hear things are soo crazy. I have a DSD too. If you need to talk about anything with that situation fell free to PM me. Sometimes just having someone who can understand the bizarreness of all the relationships involved in that is helpful.
Isn't that the truth MyLittlePiglet!! I have 2 DSS!
 
You guys are the best! Thanks for all the support. I knew I came to the right place!

I worked a 13.5 hour day today and I'm pretty tired, but things are looking up!

Family situation is on hold for now. We'll have more of a sense of how things are after this weekend. I have 3 DSDs, all teenagers :scared1: so this is not unfamiliar territory for us. It never gets easy though!

Work situation has a temporary patch on it. Next week we will be short-staffed, but I have coverage for the week I'm gone and the one after so my vacation is not a worry. I also have the potential for things working out to be far greater than I could have hoped. My boss said he may be able to transfer in someone who I've worked with before and who is absolutely wonderful. She would make my job so much easier. I'm trying not to get too excited, because my boss sometimes promises things he can't follow through on, but I have all my fingers and toes crossed!

Now I'm going to put my feet up, watch Grey's and the Office from last night, and start dreaming of sunshine, Mickey and the F&W fest!
 
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for the transfer

glad things are looking up

Enjoy your trip and relax if you can
 











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