Dh and I went to Yachtsman Steakhouse for VDay this past Feb. It was also our 35th Anniversary. I wouldn't call it romantic. It wasn't dimly lit and it was rather noisy. The restaurant that I would recommend is Narcoosee's at the Grand Floridian. Once it begins to get dark out, they do dim the lights (every day-- not just VDay) and it is overlooking the water. Every table -- whether next to the window or not-- has a view of the water. Even when crowded, it does not seem to be as noisy as some other restaurants. And, DH and I have found the food to be excellent and served with elegance. We've been there twice and loved it both times.