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Meanwhile, I will pit my son's lifetime health record against anyone's. Proof's in the pudding, folks!
Is he the 2 yr 10 month old in the picture?

Meanwhile, I will pit my son's lifetime health record against anyone's. Proof's in the pudding, folks!

I know it is reassuring to think there are some sweet little men in white coats somewhere trying to save the world w/ their medicine.....they don't exist.
Originally Posted by 3jsmommy
I know it is reassuring to think there are some sweet little men in white coats somewhere trying to save the world w/ their medicine.....they don't exist.
Those people who fear adverse reactions or autism and therefore don't vaccinate are not, I think, being honest in their reasoning. Statistically there's no doubt in my mind that kids are better off vaccinated than not.

Those people who have a personal or familiar history of adverse reactions should be comfortable in their choice not to vaccinate - and shouldn't be ridiculed for it.
Smmoafg!!! Now that is complete and utter BS. I work in the medical community. I know for a freaking fact those people are out there in pretty large numbers. I encounter them daily!
Since you know what's in my head better than I do, what is my reasoning then?![]()

It is sad that ALL of the medical community is pro-vax and yet there are those that discredit everything they recommend b/c they "know" better......
There are two parts to the equation in my mind... the statistical and the personal. Personal trumps the statistical, as it should because it has a more direct correlation with possible future reactions.
But absent personal experience (meaning family history or individual history - not anecdotal evidence of non-genetically related individuals) to the contrary, I feel that the responsible thing to do is to vaccinate.
But that's the point not ALL doctors are pro-vax. There are doctors that question vaccines. Our own pediatrician doesn't vax her kids, either does our chiropractor, our pulmonologist did selective vax on her kids due to allergies.
I'm really really tired of the you're with us or against us mentality. And that is a blanket statement.
DO NOT assume that a parent that chooses not to vaccinate does so w/o solid, credible information that THEY interpret in such a way that vaccinating their child puts them MORE at risk than not doing so.
Okay, the hyperbole is getting pretty thick in here.
I know that those people exist because I have a close relative who is one of those "people in white coats" trying to save the world.
She works for a large, multinational pharmaceutical company in research for vaccines. She doesn't have horns or a red cape. She is not the devil.
There are very real people who are spending their careers trying to help all of us.
Big pharma is not any more or less evil than GM or Walmart or Microsoft or Exxon. There are good and bad aspects to every one of those companies. All of them (and the big pharmas) are motivated by profit, but that doesn't mean that there aren't people working there who aren't trying to make a better world.
As for vaccines, both of our daughters have had all of their vaccines, but not always on the schedule the Doctors recommended. When we spoke to our pediatrician, she said that one reason the vaccines had gotten so loaded into a few "rounds" of shots was because if they were split out, far fewer people would come back and get all the vaccines. She was okay with the idea of spreading them out if the parents wanted - we has several extra visits to the pediatrician's office to get the vaccines done, but we felt more comfortable with it.
I am 100% pro vaccine. I think that its one of the things we can do which will most likely help improve our children's chances of leading happy, healthy lives.
Those people who have a personal or familiar history of adverse reactions should be comfortable in their choice not to vaccinate - and shouldn't be ridiculed for it.
Those people who fear adverse reactions or autism and therefore don't vaccinate are not, I think, being honest in their reasoning. Statistically there's no doubt in my mind that kids are better off vaccinated than not.

Then there are those that combine the two "parts." There are those of us that take our family medical history into account... and then do all the research. We read vaccination books, journal articles, research and yes, find some information on the internet... on both sides of the vaccination fence. We research the diseases, possible complications and the worldwide incidence rates. We read the manufacturer's inserts that come with the vaccines, learn the efficacy rates, consider all the possible side effects. We confer w/ a variety of medical professionals and have ongoing conversations w/ them regarding the latest info on diseases and vaccines.
We are NOT crazy people that "heard" from somewhere that our friend's, friend's cousin had a kid w/ autism. We are parents that spend hundreds of hours culling through information so we can make educated decisions regarding our families.
And after all that research, some of us come to a different conclusion that vaccinating our children ISN'T the responsible thing to do...for OUR children.
I know for me that my research didn't ever end. I did hundreds of hours of research before dd was born over 6yrs ago. At that time our decision was to selectively vax her on a schedule that spaced them out over time. Through experience and MUCH more research we decided after dd's 4yr check up to totally stop vaccinating, and ds (21mo) isn't vaxed at all.
Is this my final decision...not by a long shot. I will continue to research and make decisions as new data is discovered and new information is available. I know as of right now if my children don't build up a natural immunity to chicken pox before they are 12 or 13yo, I am planning on getting the vaccine for them. I may do the same w/ the HPV vax, or Hep B..I don't know because the data may be different when we get to that point.
DO NOT assume that a parent that chooses not to vaccinate does so w/o solid, credible information that THEY interpret in such a way that vaccinating their child puts them MORE at risk than not doing so.
I should add that I have worked in biological research for the past 12 years. I know that there is good work going on in laboratories all around the world. Heck, I even worked for a good hunk of my 12 years at an institution that DEVELOPS vaccines. That doesn't mean I don't question, and it doesn't mean that their work isn't important.

Others have said that they feel no requirement to vaccinate their kids for the common good (I don't recall if I've seen that in your posts, but I don't think so). I do feel that requirement exists as part of the social contract.
We're not saying that you have to send your child out to wander on I-95 at rush hour for the social good. We're suggesting that doing something which has a high likelihood of no adverse reaction and a similar high likelihood of benefiting not only the child but society as a whole... that to me is not too much to ask in the social contract...of course that is changed if there is a history of problems in the family.
But that's the point not ALL doctors are pro-vax. There are doctors that question vaccines. Our own pediatrician doesn't vax her kids, either does our chiropractor, our pulmonologist did selective vax on her kids due to allergies.
I'm really really tired of the you're with us or against us mentality. And that is a blanket statement.
There is no sound point but that the most vocal part of the DIS will miss it.![]()
I thank you all for the personal digs, but you misunderstood my last post nearly in its entirety (especially about the lifetime health record).
I must say I am not in the least surprised!![]()
? You said you'd pit your DS's lifetime health record against anyone's. That would be his lifetime health record that's all of 2 years and 10 months old, right
?The notion will somehow just not go away that Big Pharma is raking in the big bucks with such products as standard "required" childhood vaccines like Polio, Tetanus, Measles, etc. Drug companies aren't tripping over themselves in a rush to make, sell, or market these vaccines. Many drug companies exited the human vaccine markets all together, and have only gotten interested in them again recently... but only in regards to newer novel vaccines like the HPV vaccine or the race for an HIV vaccine.This relative your talking about probably has nothing to do w/ the decisions made by the CEO & PR people in her company right?
I said in my post that I trust my doctor, there are many good dr.'s, many in my family including myself have worked in the medical field.
That said.......I KNOW that drug companies have huge marketing groups & do damage control to keep unfavorable studies from the public & since there is an epidemic of Autism in the U.S. right now & vaccines are being "said" to have nothing to do w/ it I choose to question those studies that many people here choose to believe.
