AuburnJen92
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Lookin' forward to seeing you at the fort on the 4th Colson!
Shannone, I agree with others to take the high road. My son's great grandparents on DH's side have never seen their only great grandson and have no intention of doing so. DH's aunt (who lives behind them) even sent all the pictures back we were sending when DS was a baby. She never opened them, just put them all in a manilla envelope and sent them back to us.
Enjoy your DD's band concerts and record them if you can. When she is old, like me, and goes back to hear them, she will appreciate that you were there and know you cared enough to preserve those moments. I know it makes you mad that your mother won't come, but she is missing out on a precious gift that your DD has. Please encourage her to go on to HS and keep playing. I am still playing my instrument and I am going to my 20th HS reunion this year. Community bands are great for after college. I can't stress enough how wonderful music is for disciplining the mind and soul.
Ok, off my soapbox.
Shannone, I agree with others to take the high road. My son's great grandparents on DH's side have never seen their only great grandson and have no intention of doing so. DH's aunt (who lives behind them) even sent all the pictures back we were sending when DS was a baby. She never opened them, just put them all in a manilla envelope and sent them back to us.
Enjoy your DD's band concerts and record them if you can. When she is old, like me, and goes back to hear them, she will appreciate that you were there and know you cared enough to preserve those moments. I know it makes you mad that your mother won't come, but she is missing out on a precious gift that your DD has. Please encourage her to go on to HS and keep playing. I am still playing my instrument and I am going to my 20th HS reunion this year. Community bands are great for after college. I can't stress enough how wonderful music is for disciplining the mind and soul.
Ok, off my soapbox.