Obi-Wan Pinobi
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Hi everyone, sorry for the delay in an update. I wanted to keep this somewhat anonymous still because the situation is still going on and getting worse.
He's still making false accusations about her on the Loss Prevention Hotline - totally absurd stories that her supervisor admits she knows they are flat out lies but still gives her the "we have an open door policy" speech saying that the company is okay with anyone saying anything they want.
More and more employees have come to her telling her they are scared of him. Not that he has done anything in particular to them, just something "off" in his demeanor. You know how you can look at a person and see just bitter hatred and rage in their eyes? They catch him glaring at them from across the store and it sends chills through them. Of course since he hasn't done anything, nothing can be done from a feeling. One employee even told my wife she wouldn't keep her lunch in the backroom when he is working because she is scared he would tamper with it.
She's been hoping that he would finally lose it. He seems so close to the edge. He's putting on a show for her boss when she comes in. She was there today and told my wife when he was out of earshot "Can you believe the production he is putting on for me like I'm going to buy it?" My wife was so happy to hear that she didn't buy into his manipulation and scams like her former boss did. He had her wrapped around his little finger - to the point where when he lost it and had my wife backed up against a file cabinet screaming in her face, when she tried to press harassment charges against him she told her to "drop it" and stop picking on him.
(He would go back to that supervisor literally crying and telling her that my wife was the one yelling, not him and boo hoo, she's so mean to me. He is such a manipulator)
Well, he finally lost it with a customer a couple of fridays ago. My wife has been working furiously to identify the customer so she could get a statement from her. (The incident was reported to DW by another employee). Well my wife found out who the customer was and finally was able to speak to her by phone on Monday. She was shocked. He really went off on this customer, grabbing product from her and screaming at her to leave the store. She told my wife that she felt like if he had a gun, he would have shot her right there. She said his face was beet red and he was screaming and she was terrified for her own safety. She seriously feels that he is mentally unstable and was worried for the safety of those working with him also. So my DW got her phone number and asked if she would be willing to relate her story to her supervisor. She said she would be willing to tell it to the CEO because she was so upset. Today the supervisor and the customer finally caught up with each other, and the sup. is horrified at what happened.
She called DW and told her she wants him terminated for this, no more of the "well, lets write him up again" nonsense the office is pulling. She called corp and then called DW back. Corp wants DW to overnight the surviellance tape from the night it happened so that they can review it. They said that a rep from Human Resources and a Loss Prevention auditor will be coming into her store to "interview" him about the incident. What the heck is the need to interview him?
You know it won't go well, he's going to cry his crocodile tears again and manipulate and lie to try to make it look like my wife is somehow to blame. Hopefully they will see through all this.
Aside from this, my wife is terrified. She is scared for her safety with this maniac. She said that the change in him over the past few months has been horrible. He comes to work with his eyes bright red bloodshot and he is just seething hatred. She can feel him glaring at her from across the room and other employees have expressed worry that he will hurt her from the way he talks. DW is scared that he will flip out and come back with a gun and blow everyone away. I wouldn't put it past this person. As if DW doesn't have enough issues with her health (btw, it has gone seriously downhill in the past couple of weeks. That is why she has been MIA. She misses you guys though). She's in a tremedous amount of pain, her stomach and esophagus have been on fire for over a week and she has spells where she just can't stop crying. I'm scared for her.
I don't know how much longer she can go on like this. This is way more than one person should ever have to bear.
Well, that's it for the update. Hopefully this will turn out okay in the end, but DW really feels it will end with her at least getting punched or choked by this person.
He's still making false accusations about her on the Loss Prevention Hotline - totally absurd stories that her supervisor admits she knows they are flat out lies but still gives her the "we have an open door policy" speech saying that the company is okay with anyone saying anything they want.
More and more employees have come to her telling her they are scared of him. Not that he has done anything in particular to them, just something "off" in his demeanor. You know how you can look at a person and see just bitter hatred and rage in their eyes? They catch him glaring at them from across the store and it sends chills through them. Of course since he hasn't done anything, nothing can be done from a feeling. One employee even told my wife she wouldn't keep her lunch in the backroom when he is working because she is scared he would tamper with it.
She's been hoping that he would finally lose it. He seems so close to the edge. He's putting on a show for her boss when she comes in. She was there today and told my wife when he was out of earshot "Can you believe the production he is putting on for me like I'm going to buy it?" My wife was so happy to hear that she didn't buy into his manipulation and scams like her former boss did. He had her wrapped around his little finger - to the point where when he lost it and had my wife backed up against a file cabinet screaming in her face, when she tried to press harassment charges against him she told her to "drop it" and stop picking on him.
(He would go back to that supervisor literally crying and telling her that my wife was the one yelling, not him and boo hoo, she's so mean to me. He is such a manipulator)Well, he finally lost it with a customer a couple of fridays ago. My wife has been working furiously to identify the customer so she could get a statement from her. (The incident was reported to DW by another employee). Well my wife found out who the customer was and finally was able to speak to her by phone on Monday. She was shocked. He really went off on this customer, grabbing product from her and screaming at her to leave the store. She told my wife that she felt like if he had a gun, he would have shot her right there. She said his face was beet red and he was screaming and she was terrified for her own safety. She seriously feels that he is mentally unstable and was worried for the safety of those working with him also. So my DW got her phone number and asked if she would be willing to relate her story to her supervisor. She said she would be willing to tell it to the CEO because she was so upset. Today the supervisor and the customer finally caught up with each other, and the sup. is horrified at what happened.
She called DW and told her she wants him terminated for this, no more of the "well, lets write him up again" nonsense the office is pulling. She called corp and then called DW back. Corp wants DW to overnight the surviellance tape from the night it happened so that they can review it. They said that a rep from Human Resources and a Loss Prevention auditor will be coming into her store to "interview" him about the incident. What the heck is the need to interview him?
You know it won't go well, he's going to cry his crocodile tears again and manipulate and lie to try to make it look like my wife is somehow to blame. Hopefully they will see through all this.Aside from this, my wife is terrified. She is scared for her safety with this maniac. She said that the change in him over the past few months has been horrible. He comes to work with his eyes bright red bloodshot and he is just seething hatred. She can feel him glaring at her from across the room and other employees have expressed worry that he will hurt her from the way he talks. DW is scared that he will flip out and come back with a gun and blow everyone away. I wouldn't put it past this person. As if DW doesn't have enough issues with her health (btw, it has gone seriously downhill in the past couple of weeks. That is why she has been MIA. She misses you guys though). She's in a tremedous amount of pain, her stomach and esophagus have been on fire for over a week and she has spells where she just can't stop crying. I'm scared for her.
I don't know how much longer she can go on like this. This is way more than one person should ever have to bear.Well, that's it for the update. Hopefully this will turn out okay in the end, but DW really feels it will end with her at least getting punched or choked by this person.
and haven't made reference to what company she works for) He has no idea what screenname I use so it should be pretty safe.
