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Can I just vent here for a moment?

Last night,I went out with my friend and her mom to go shopping at Kohl's.
Since I started chemo,I haven't been able to go out that much,so going out shopping to a mall or something is a big deal for me.

Anyhoo,lately my knee has been giving out on me.
Maybe it has something to do with the tumor,maybe not.
Who knows.
Last night,after about 2 hours of walking around,my knee started to hurt and was on the verge of collapsing on me.
I quickly said "Heidi,go borrow that wheelchair please" and I was sitting in 10 seconds.

I keep doing my shopping,and hold some clothes for my friend Heidi.
Now we thought we saw an old neighbor of ours who we hadn't seen in about 5 years,but brushed it off and kept shopping.

So we go into the fitting rooms to try on our clothes and see that the wheelchair accesible(sp?) room was open.
We roll the chair in,put our clothes down,and just as we're about to close the door,guess who comes out of nowhere?

That's right,the old neighbor.
Now you're probably wondering why she's freaking out,it's just an old neighbor.

Not the case.
This girl was a b**ch.
She may have been only 8 or 9,but she would make fun of us like you would not believe.
She is a LARGE girl, (nothing against the large or chubby,i am chubby myself) and I can tell you,it is fat,she has not grown into a womanly figure at all.
Her whole family is large.

Well she goes,"Uhm,this is MY room"
Heidi and I said,"Oops,sorry,we'll get out"
Then her b**ch of a mom goes "Well you better get out,her jeans are in there"
:scared1:

We were just like ***??
It peeved us off soooo bad.
I was always taught,that if in a wheelchair accesible fitting room,you have the room and the person in the wheelchair needs it,you get your hiney outta there and let them have that room.

I was astonished that
1)They would DEMAND that room in that manner.
2)They didn't even offer to let me in the room.

So,if you were in this position,would you be peeved off also?
And would you offer the room to a person in a wheelchair if needed?

Sorry it was so long.
It was just so aggravating.
 
Can I just vent here for a moment?

Last night,I went out with my friend and her mom to go shopping at Kohl's.
Since I started chemo,I haven't been able to go out that much,so going out shopping to a mall or something is a big deal for me.

Anyhoo,lately my knee has been giving out on me.
Maybe it has something to do with the tumor,maybe not.
Who knows.
Last night,after about 2 hours of walking around,my knee started to hurt and was on the verge of collapsing on me.
I quickly said "Heidi,go borrow that wheelchair please" and I was sitting in 10 seconds.

I keep doing my shopping,and hold some clothes for my friend Heidi.
Now we thought we saw an old neighbor of ours who we hadn't seen in about 5 years,but brushed it off and kept shopping.

So we go into the fitting rooms to try on our clothes and see that the wheelchair accesible(sp?) room was open.
We roll the chair in,put our clothes down,and just as we're about to close the door,guess who comes out of nowhere?

That's right,the old neighbor.
Now you're probably wondering why she's freaking out,it's just an old neighbor.

Not the case.
This girl was a b**ch.
She may have been only 8 or 9,but she would make fun of us like you would not believe.
She is a LARGE girl, (nothing against the large or chubby,i am chubby myself) and I can tell you,it is fat,she has not grown into a womanly figure at all.
Her whole family is large.

Well she goes,"Uhm,this is MY room"
Heidi and I said,"Oops,sorry,we'll get out"
Then her b**ch of a mom goes "Well you better get out,her jeans are in there"
:scared1:

We were just like ***??
It peeved us off soooo bad.
I was always taught,that if in a wheelchair accesible fitting room,you have the room and the person in the wheelchair needs it,you get your hiney outta there and let them have that room.

I was astonished that
1)They would DEMAND that room in that manner.
2)They didn't even offer to let me in the room.

So,if you were in this position,would you be peeved off also?
And would you offer the room to a person in a wheelchair if needed?

Sorry it was so long.
It was just so aggravating.

Wow.

That was.


Rude.

Not you.

But her.

UGH.

Oh trust me hun, I know rude, I've had some rude things shoved at me for years now for some things. That's low. I would have shoved the jeans at her and would've been like "I don't see your name on it! I have a wheelchair! What do you think these rooms are for?". Even if that sounds a little rude, it's the truth. And it's not even like she can do anything about it if you said that. It technically is for people with wheelchairs. And if you want to use that room, you should be able to use that room. It's a free country.

The nerve of some people :sad2:.
 
First, :hug: :hug: :hug:

Secondly, Were I your friend heidi, I wouldn't be allowed back in that store, and you would probably have to post bail for me after what I would do in that situation.
 
wow. she was very mean. that's one of the situations where I say I would be very mad. I can't believe her.
 

Um, wow that was rude! I would have been soooooo f***ing pissed if that were me.

Were I that *****, I would have at the most asked to have finished up quickly, and not throw a fit about it.
 
:eek: I'm shocked that someone would even do that! That's like, discrimination (sp?), not letting someone who's in a wheelchair in the wheelchair changing room! :sad2:

My mom and I usually go into the wheelchair room if it's open because, it's easier for us to get changed in one room rather than go into two and come out to show something. But if I ever heard "Oh, someone's in the wheelchair room honey, let's roll you back outside to find another fitting room." I'd grab my clothes and move to another room. They need the room more than I do.

I would have gone to one of the employees and told them on the matter. Hopefully they could knock some sense into those people.

:hug: I'm sorry people are so completely rude. You have every right to be p.oed on what happened.
 
Yes and Yes.
I would be so upset! Some people are just so rude!

I hope you feel better sooon.:hug:
 
I don't have words for this.

If I were that idiotic girl, I would have said, "Oh, sorry. I was in this room, but you can have it."

:hug:

I hope that you start feeling better soon.
 
:hug:
What she did was horrible.
I would've been beyond pissed if I were put in that situation.
I hardly use wheelchair - accessible dressing rooms, but if I was using one, and someone in a wheelchair needed the room, I'd gladly find another one.
 
First, :hug: :hug: :hug:

Secondly, Were I your friend heidi, I wouldn't be allowed back in that store, and you would probably have to post bail for me after what I would do in that situation.

:rotfl:

I'm so sorry, that was so rude of them.
I would have gone to the manager or something...
 
This is what I do when I get mad at someone. I say EAT THIS!!! @_@

and they back off. Sometimes i put food on their face.
 
Wow thats horrible!!! And just plain sick too!! Im sorry that happened.

If i were you or your friend i wouldve probably had said to her "Oh im sorry is the reason why you need a handicap room is because its the only room you can fit yourself into!?"....people these dayz.....
 
This is just rude why are people some times a#@-holes this is very rude of your of neighbor and she needs to grow and up and be more curtious to others
 
I can't stand people like that.
I would've been yelling at her like there is no tomorrow.
I wouldn't have let her have it, I could care less what her mom said.

I use the wheelchair accesible(sp) room when there is nothing else left, but if someone needed it, I'd wait for another one to open.

That was just rude.
 


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