Ugh, friend vent.

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

Well, basically I have had two best friends since last year. One moved here last year, and the other has been at the school since 3rd grade. The one who was here since 3rd grade (Let's call her D.) had friends, and then me and the other (We'll call her C) and D all grew closer and eventually formed a group of three friends. But then this year, D seems to be growing apart more and more. Since she's been here longer, she has other people whom she has been friends with for much longer. Lately, she is been really irritable towards C and me. Every conversation we have ends on a sour note, with her usually snapping at us, and treating us like we're 5 and stupid. But when she talks to her other friends, she seems happy and normal. Sometimes she is happy and normal with us, but mostly she gets annoyed.
I emailed her about it and she says for some reason she just gets really tense around us, and that she doesn't really know why. Take note that this is a tough girl, she isn't afraid to stand up or speak her mind. Constant times she will yell at anyone that messes with her.

I'm tired of the attitude, but I really don't want to lose her as a friend. We have had a lot of great memories.

Advice would be lovely, but hugs help too.
Thanks for letting me vent.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

I'm sorry

I hate to say it, but I'm sorta like that. I'll be all happy-cheering with one friend, and then five seconds later I'll be snapping at another. They have to give me a reason though, I just don't do it for no reason. But I'm also the kind of person who speaks my mind, I tell people straight up what I think about them, which might be a bad thing, but now people know that I'm not the type of person to let people walk all over me. I don't know what to tell you about D. She's being a teenage girl, we all have our issues, it'll probably all cool off. Just give it time.

 

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

Thank you for responding.
She hasn't given us a reason.
She is still treating us this way, and I just don't know how much more of this I can take. It doesn't seem like accidental snapping anymore, now it seems like she is just deliberately going out of her way to make me feel like I'm stupid, and just feel bad in general.
She is sick right now.
The problem is we are working on a project together, and now that she is sick, it is hard to keep up. We have to do two projects together, and we chose to do puppets and an old fashioned newspaper. It is due in two days, so I emailed her and told her that maybe we should switch and do a different project than the puppets. She called me and had a hurtful tone in her voice. Basically, she reduced me to tears. She didn't say anything hurtful, but the tone stood out so much, it was basically saying "Ugh, I really wish I weren't talking with you right now."
I just want this to stop. It was really only last week where she started to get this hurtful, and I can't take it.

 

[bananda]

that must be really hard. sorry i dont have any advice.

 

[disneydance]

I'm really sorry that this is going on
But maybe your friend is going through a really hard time and may just not want to show you it...
I mean I was going through a really hard time a few months back and was find around certain people
Then wacko around my closest friends...
I really wanted to tell that I was considering doing something really bad... (starts with a s...)
But didnt know what to do I was stressed out with personal life etc... and would just be fine around others and not so fine around them since I wanted help but just didnt know how to say it...
This may sound confusing but thats just my take...