Turpin children

I know a lady who adopted 3 siblings with her husband. They had been abused both with their birth parents and in foster care. Well guess what. Once they were adopted one of them was sexually abused by the adoptive father. 😡

He went to jail but the kids are all grown and have drug problems. Sometimes the sadness is just too much to imagine.
 

I know a lady who adopted 3 siblings with her husband. They had been abused both with their birth parents and in foster care. Well guess what. Once they were adopted one of them was sexually abused by the adoptive father. 😡

He went to jail but the kids are all grown and have drug problems. Sometimes the sadness is just too much to imagine.
Sometimes people just suck.
 
So sad! These government institutions are broke. Bad people get these kids and others and good people who want to adopt and foster can't. So ridiculous.
And where is the outrage? There are countless horror stories of one kind or another related to kids-in-care. DCFS practically everywhere on the planet has huge, glaring short-comings that all boil down to bad decisions on the part of some individual. People who could do better, they just don't. Appalling and egregious - there's rarely any accountability. :furious:
 
This is so upsetting to me. I used to supervise foster homes and I hope this agency gets prosecuted. They messed up on so many levels. Those poor kids.
 
As someone who trains and approves prospective foster and adoptive families, this is my worst nightmare. We are human; we cannot read peoples' minds or hearts. Luckily, I have not experienced abuse in any of the homes I've trained and approved but it's certainly a possibility at some point. The need is great and the pressure to increase available homes is overwhelming at times.
 
As someone who trains and approves prospective foster and adoptive families, this is my worst nightmare. We are human; we cannot read peoples' minds or hearts. Luckily, I have not experienced abuse in any of the homes I've trained and approved but it's certainly a possibility at some point. The need is great and the pressure to increase available homes is overwhelming at times.
Not trying to give you a hard time at all; it's important work you're doing. Would you mind telling me, in generalities, what accountability someone in your position, or the "Department" itself, would have if such an unthinkable outcome was discovered? (Sincere question).
 
As someone who lived in dozens of foster homes prior to my adoption, I'm not surprised at all. There are terrible, evil people in this world and some of them enjoy abusing kids who need love and security the most.
 
Social Services who supervise foster care and other child needs are often way under-funded and way overworked.

Some foster parents and agencies are just there for the $$$.
 
Not trying to give you a hard time at all; it's important work you're doing. Would you mind telling me, in generalities, what accountability someone in your position, or the "Department" itself, would have if such an unthinkable outcome was discovered? (Sincere question).
It depends of course. If I trained and approved a family and they later abused a child, I wouldn't automatically be in question as long as I followed policy and did my due diligence in interviewing, checking references, obtaining all the necessary clearances, etc. That doesn't mean I wouldn't feel bad or feel duped. People can absolutely lie their way into the fold. Sad but true. There have been circumstances where workers, supervisors, etc. up the chain have been fired and even sued if found they were found to be falsifying records, claiming to see children monthly but not doing so or as is reported in this specific case ignoring the children's statements of abuse. If proven that the workers and agency were aware and did nothing then they should lose their jobs and their licenses if they have those and possibly face jail time because this job is hard enough without a few bad apples. It calls the profession and the job into question and reflects on all child welfare agencies.
 
It depends of course. If I trained and approved a family and they later abused a child, I wouldn't automatically be in question as long as I followed policy and did my due diligence in interviewing, checking references, obtaining all the necessary clearances, etc. That doesn't mean I wouldn't feel bad or feel duped. People can absolutely lie their way into the fold. Sad but true. There have been circumstances where workers, supervisors, etc. up the chain have been fired and even sued if found they were found to be falsifying records, claiming to see children monthly but not doing so or as is reported in this specific case ignoring the children's statements of abuse. If proven that the workers and agency were aware and did nothing then they should lose their jobs and their licenses if they have those and possibly face jail time because this job is hard enough without a few bad apples. It calls the profession and the job into question and reflects on all child welfare agencies.
Thank you. :flower3:
 












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