You have no clue about what I've told my DD.
I won't sugar coat what it is though. It is a stranger touching you

. Yes, the TSA official is doing their job, but again, its still an unreasonable search. If she does something to cause a police officer to search her, then she'll understand that there is just cause. When she needs to go to the doctor, she understands the need to be touched. Why change terminology to hide the truth? I am giving her the facts. She also knows how to research this issue on her own and has done that.
Sorry for you that you think I'm paranoid. You can think what you want

. My kid is not scared - she's uncomfortable and if she was scared, its not because of me. She knows how to think for herself and she recognizes when people use "terminology" to cover up the truth. She knows that "enhanced" pat-down means they can go inside your waist band.
I for one, am thankful she's an independent thinker. You can judge me all you want, but we're OK. The small glimpse you have into my family from my posts give you zero idea of what we're like on a daily basis and zero insight into our daily conversations.