Life was so much easier for me when the rest of my family just followed me around at Disney. Now they all have opinions on where to stay, where to eat. LOL! I feel your pain.
This trip, I got to pick AKL so others are picking some of the restaurants. Luckily, they all picked park restaurants so it was easy to fit them in.
Good luck - and remember, you can't please all of the people all of the time!