Btw, thanks a lot for listening to my back and forth, all. I know it's first world problems, but the input really helps. So much to see, so little time.
I'm just happy to know that that someone else thinks the same way I do Should I/Shouldn't I...it always helps to have others who will listen and offer suggestions. Yes, we are very lucky to have such 'problems'. That thought doesn't escape me. I can't wait to hear about all your pre-ABD time. Sounds like you have a lot to plan.