We are considering inviting an elderly relative who has never been to WDW to go with us. She is 86 yrs. old and doesn't walk very well anymore for long distances. She has recently lost her long time partner and they had mentioned a few times in the past that they would sometime like to go see what it is that our family loves so much about it. We wouldn't have any kids with us and realize this would be a different sort of trip - no wild rides, a much slower pace, more shows, breaks, and rest at the resort. We would definitely rent a wheelchair. For those of you who have travelled with (or are) older seniors, does this sound like a good idea? Is 86 too old for WDW? Is a week too long? Any suggestions or advice?
We took my 72 year-old mother this January. We rented an
ECV from CARE Medical, which was affordable, they provided a handsome, perfectly operating
scooter, with great customer service. Highly recommend them.
Keep the pace gentle, with a focus on shows: Hoop Dee Doo Revue, MSEP, Festival of Fantasy, Wishes, Cirque de Soleil, etc. Include some of the better character or themed meals like Crystal Palace, Ohana's, Be Our Guest, etc., so they can experience some of the kid-at-heart magic of Disney, as well. Maybe California Grill at Wishes time so they don't have to watch the fireworks from within the overcrowded MK?
Don't sacrifice their comfort in favor of theming by putting them in a value or moderate Disney resort room. I recommend staying either deluxe or at one of the better (and more affordable) nearby off-property hotels like Bonnet Creek Hilton or Waldorf Astoria (the latter costs about as much as one of the better Disney moderate rooms, amazingly). If you can afford Animal Kingdom Lodge, they might really enjoy seeing the animals around the resort there each day.
At whichever resort you choose, I recommend reserving by phone and emphasize that you're traveling with seniors with mobility issues, so you need a room that doesn't feature too long a walk. Do check-in in person, and verify with them that you got a room with reasonable proximity. If you didn't get that, ask if they can switch your room. The ECV will help, of course- make sure to reserve one for the whole trip- don't try to just use one within the parks.