Hello!
I am the mom of a 10 yo boy with Aspergers, ADHD, and dyslexia. He adores travel, and even though he really craves routine at home, he does exceptionally well with long days touring attractions.
That said, all kids (not just ones with challenges) are different. Have you ever taken your son to a theme park? How did he do with it? We started taking our son to King's Island (big theme park in Ohio) when he was 4. He's been at least once a year ever since, except last year, and he's visited smaller theme parks. B/c he's used to other parks, I don't expect any trouble at Disney, even though he's never been.
That said, I ordered the Disney dvd (got it today) and have been talking about the different rides that are available at Disney. We've looked at YouTube videos of the various rides.
I think our son is going to do well. Though he doesn't normally take ADHD meds during the summer, and hasn't taken them when we've been to other theme parks, I am bringing his meds with us. I'm bringing earplugs, though he's mostly outgrown his noise sensitivity, and I'll be sure to have tylenol on hand if he gets a headache from the noise and people.
The best measure though, is to know your particular kid and to be willing to work with him to have a good time. You may need to only be in the park when it's not busy - open to noon and 5-close (or whatever an expert says). be prepared to take a midday break. Know which rides are soothing and will help your son calm down. Be open to using his meds even if he doesn't usually need them when he's not in school. Try to keep mealtimes and bedtimes on his regular schedule.
You can get detailed information on each ride in the Unofficial Guide to WDW and the Unofficial Guide to WDW w/Kids (last updated 2007, not everything in it, but most). I'm using it to help me gauge the reactions both of my kids will have to the rides (my 8 yo nightmares easily). And I'm making sure to talk about each ride and let the boys see a little bit about it so they feel more in control of their own reactions when they get there.
Good luck and I hope you all have a great time.
