Gypsybear, I have always been in the same boat, but it has worked out well. I was once at the Grog Grotto alone and I wanted that Nautilus SO BAD - I asked if I could just get the mug, even if I pay full price for the drink and all. He told me they had to pour it if I wanted it. He said that I didn't have to drink it - well, yeah. Anyway, I ended up asking him to see if this other table wanted to drink up a free Nautilus - the answer that I heard was. "I wouldn't say no." Then they waived me over, and I ended up hanging out with some off-duty CMs for the night. We had a great time chatting, one had worked at DL and Tokyo DL, which I had been to. One of them also took my email address and gave me a few freebie FPs for the following day!

It was just a generally great experience. I did also once have someone drink my drink at DL's Trader Sam's and we had a nice chat too. You can just make some new friends that way!