My advice to you would be to ride non-scary rides first! Work him into the other questionable rides. If he starts to balk when he sees it or hears the music ...do some reassuring that all will be ok ie: only pretend. If he still balks...don't make him ride!
We have all seen parents who insist on "making" kids ride and it amounts to torture for the kids. I witnessed and also personally know someone else who had their 5 yr. old boy do Space Mountain first thing on the first Disney trip and then kid was scared about doing every ride after that.
My kids were 7(ds) and 3 1/2(dd) when we went.
Haunted Mansion- ds went and ok
dd- too scared when the music started playing- didn't go
Dinosaur- ds went, says it was fine, although think he was a bit scared
dd- no way would I have tried this with her
Stitch- (was Alien Adventure at the time)
ds- ok although I think maybe a bit scared
dd- no way on trying her on this either.
Utilize parent swap if needed....that way you ALL can have a pleasant experience! Have fun
