I am pretty sure I am missing something here, but decides to use this to start my post anyway

I am English teacher in Asia. I am going to WDW for the first time this September, but the only reason I can afford to go now is because my folks are paying for the majority of it. I only return to the U.S. every couple years, so this is a bit of an excuse for us to spend all our time together for two weeks.
I think Kathy made an interesting point about having to give up stuff because she wanted to go to Disney with her family in the past and that was her priority. I think that's ultimately how I feel about it too. If you really want to go, then I think a lot of people (not everyone, I know) could find a way. If I was paying for myself, I would have to decide where Disney fell on my list of places I want to go and if I would be willing to give up other things, and maybe even other vacations, to save up the money. I know that I am very fortunate to have parents who can afford to take me on vacation still.
I'm not saying everyone ranting is doing this, but I've found that lots of people complain about not having one thing while spending money on another. I have an aunt who always complains to my mom that she can't afford a vacation every time we go on one, but she is constantly remodeling her house...it make's it a but hard to really sympathize with her.
The rants on boards like this don't bother me too much, and compared to all the other negative things online it seems pretty mild. However, I can see why it bothers some. While I think the team does sympathize with those this really affects, I think Craig has sort of pointed out that there are people who are going to complain because there is something to complain about even as they continuing to go and pay for the nicest hotels, dinning, and tickets. Some people are just negative...it must be hard to be them.