I'm hooked after the first couple of shows!
I think she seems really nice, but is it me, or is the DH a bit of jerk? The woman is a pediatrician with presumably the typical brain power and the compensation package to match, he is an as-yet-undefined "businessman" who seems to spend a lot of time hanging around the apartment, but he treats her in a pretty condescending and patronizing way, like SHE'S lucky to be with HIM!
I can't wait to see how it develops.
Jane
I think she seems really nice, but is it me, or is the DH a bit of jerk?
Ido like the couple and think they work well together, but I was thinking the opposite. That he has given up so much so she could follow her dream, that she should be the one compromising on location. He moved to Texas, she could live a few miles further from town.
Marraige is about compromise and maybe he made a HUGE compromise by moving from NY to TX (he does work from home, and sometimes still has to fly to NYC for work...he owns the busniess with a friend). And maybe he figures he moved away so she can live a lil bit further from the hospital. Maybe the area she wants to live in is more money, worse schools or whatever. Remember in reality TV there is editing and we might not have heard the whole discussion.QUOTE]
These points may or may not be true - what exactly was his sacrifice/compromise - did I miss the episode where he said what business he is in and described exactly what he left behind?
It's one thing to push back if he has already made major concessions in respect of a legitimate business he was nurturing, but quite another to act all hard done by when maybe he's a bit of a hanger-on loser who will benefit from her drive and success while vocally mourning some "business" that was never really that viable or successful in the first place. Needing to move for her opportunity serves as a good excuse to "abandon" his business and lord it over her, in that case.
I don't know which is true.
I suspect the latter because, like other posters have also mentioned, regardless of their moving situation, he definitely treats her in a condescending and impatient way, and I have seen situations where she appears defer to him unnecessarily and be apologetic for no reason. Personally, I have observed this in couples where the wife is a powerhouse and the husband is average or below - it's a way of compensating for the imbalance, and IMO, pretty distasteful.
No dog in the fight, though, just interested in continuing to watch the show!
Jane
It's hard to tell with the editing, but I think they had been at the store for quite a while by then. It was light out when they got there and dark when they left. Some guys just can't do hours of shopping.It was sweet how he made her that nice dinner for their anniversary, but I was appalled at how he was treating her when she wanted to try on shoes!
I've really enjoyed this show so far - it's on my list of summer favorites!!
Jen is not a pediatrician. From the website:
Jen, 35, is a neonatologist at Texas Childrens Hospital in Houston and Bill, 34, owns his own sales, training and telecommunications business in New York, which makes for lots of commuting and long-distance phone calls.
I don't know what Bill's company earns but it sounds like a successful enterprise. Jen is making far more than a pediatrician would if she is a neonatologist at a big hospital. She is an extremely skilled specialist and it wouldn't be out of line for them to be looking at houses in the 500K to 1 million dollar range, given her present and future earning power.
I don't think Bill is being anymore of a jerk than most men after following around their shopping wife for hours on end.