Thoughts and prayers, please - UPDATE IN POST 8

redshoe

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Hey all,

Remember the new pup that we brought home about 3 weeks ago, that I was so happy about?

He's been diagnosed with distemper. For those of you who don't know what it is, it's about the most devastating illness a dog can get. It's closely related to the measles virus, but its effects on a dog are similar to polio.

He's been having tremors and facial tics since the evening of the 22nd, and has had several seizures since then (six of them in a 24-hour period preceding Christmas Eve morning). As of yesterday, the tremors had begun affecting his limbs also. He's a tough little guy, though, and has been doing amazingly well. His appetite is normal, and he's eaten every meal we put before him (he was ravenously hungry this morning), and drinks water at least twice a day, just like normal. He still follows us from room to room and wags his tail for us, even though it's obvious that he's exhausted because the tremors and tics make it hard for him to get any sleep. He has no discharge from his eyes and very little from his nose - very unusual in a dog with distemper. All of this is possibly because he's older with a more developed immune system than the usual age for getting distemper, and also could be because he was vaccinated when we got him during the incubation phase of the virus, which may have helped blunt it some.

He has around a 50/50 chance of making it through this. Maybe slightly better than that because of the above factors. We're fighting it with everything possible, which is why I haven't been on much in the last several days. Distemper has no cure, but he's getting antibiotics to ward off secondary infections, as well as a round of tamiflu. If we can get him through the weekend, then we know that he's probably going to make it. However, he will most likely have lasting neurological issues...epilepsy, continued tremors, impaired motor skills, possibly brain damage, an increased risk of encephalitis (swelling of the brain) when he gets older, or any combination of the above. We're prepared for this, and willing to do whatever is necessary to give him the best possible quality of life that he can have. One of the vets we took him to is even looking into the possibility of using anti-tremor drugs designed for humans to help with any eventual long-term issues he might have with that should he pull through. Of course, we also understand that there may come a point where we have to make some hard choices.

Tomorrow and Friday, I'll be working from home in order to keep an eye on him. Other Half has been with him most of today. Even though he's only been with us 3 weeks, he's been an established and loved part of our family from the first second we brought him home, and we'll be devastated if we lose him to this. He is a fantastic, wonderful dog who deserves to live long, happy and well cared for with a family who loves him, and we want so much to give him that.

Those of you who have dogs and cats, please, PLEASE review their immunization records and make sure your pets have all of their vaccinations up to date. And give your furry ones an extra hug tonight. I can't begin to tell you what a nightmare it is to see our new baby go through this, knowing that if whomever had had him before (and we can tell someone did) had just been responsible enough and cared enough about him to give him his vaccinations on schedule, or even at all, he wouldn't be fighting for his life right now. Distemper and many other illnesses are so terrible, and so easily avoided. I wouldn't wish this on any other pet or family, ever.

Please keep Rhett in your thoughts and prayers. We would really appreciate it.
 
aww red :[ im soooo sorry my prayers r with him tonite and remember even if the hard choices do come along, pic the best ... he would want yu 2 aswell. stay strong!
- sunset
 
aww.. that s so sad. I don't know what i would do if any of my dogs got a disease like that. Hope he gets the better half of the 50/50 :). GL with making it through this event.
 
I was wondering why you hadn't been on red. I am SO very sorry to hear this and will send some prayers your way. Our pets are such a part of our family, my heart goes out to your family having to go through this. Hoping for the best possible outcome.

:grouphug:
 

i will keep rhett in my prayers.
I'm the dogiest dog lover ever so it's really sad to here. :(
Don't worry, just keep praying and tell god that you don't want her to leave because you would never want to lose her.

Best wishes out to you and you dog,
Dizzy
 
Keeping your doggie in my thoughts and prayers -- sending big hugs and pixie dust your way. :hug: pixiedust: :hug: pixiedust:
 
I wanted to thank everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Unfortunately, Rhett had a huge seizure one week ago today. During the seizure I had to hold his head back to keep him from biting his own legs, and then his tongue got clamped in his teeth. Afterward, he couldn't get it out. Couldn't get the drink of water he wanted or anything. That's no kind of life for a dog. So we made the decision to let him go. Other Half and I were both with him at the vet's, along with our across-the-street neighbors, who we consider to be family.

A few days afterward, we got his lab results back. He was already being treated for hookworm, roundworm and kennel cough when we got him and when the distemper kicked in. But it turned out that on top of that, he also had rocky mountain spotted fever from a tick he had picked up as a stray. After I heard that, I knew our poor baby didn't stand a chance from the beginning. There's no way one dog could handle all that. But let me tell you, he put up one heck of a fight.

After we came home from letting him go, Other Half looked down at the bed we had set up for him in the living room. There was a fortune from a fortune cookie on it. We'd had chinese food several days before, but it had long since been cleaned up, and we don't leave things like that laying around because our beagle eats everything including fortune cookie papers (because he smells the cookie on them). Neither of us remembered getting this particular fortune, which said "your kindness will surely be repaid." Maybe it was just coincidence and we're being overly superstitious, but we can't help feeling that it was Rhett's way of saying goodbye and thank you for loving him and trying to save him. That's one fortune we'll never, ever throw away.

We'll try again soon with another dog, after we're sure the virus is gone from our house and yard, and we'll probably get that one from the shelter, too. I'm scared to, but if we can save a dog, that will mean something good will come out of the hurt of losing Rhett. The shelter will waive our fees for the next one we choose, which will help after what we spent trying to save Rhett (we don't begrudge it by any means, and would have paid ten times the amount to save him, but it will make things a little easier not having to pay another pet adoption fee).

Thank you again, everyone, for thinking of us and of Rhett.
 
Aww Red, you already know my heart goes out to you but this post brought me to tears. Again, I am so very sorry you lost dear Rhett and especially this way. But I wanted to say that you all gave him a loving, caring home, no matter how short his time was with you, you and your family made a huge difference in his life and he knew he was loved. He was blessed to find you all.
 
Big big hugs to you my friend -- Rhett was so very lucky to have chosen your family for even a short time. The love you gave him probably outweighed anything he has ever received. I'm sure he is watching and thanking you all from a much better place. :hug: :hug:
 
Awe hugs to you. I am sure that fortune cookie was a sign from Rhett. Most people would not have even tried. You loved him to his very last breath and will always carry a part of him in your heart. He left this world over to rainbow bridge knowing he was loved and special. the most important gift you gave him by rescuing him.

Hugs
 
:sad2: :hug: :lovestruc red while i am extremly superstitous and believe in spirits and afterlife i believe that the cookie message was to tell you how much you and your family are loved. you opened your heart and home and shared a housefull of love for a poor sick dog. what you have given out, you will get back tenfold. my heart goes out to you and i also sit in amazement at the love your house has (some people would have given up long ago) i am sorry for your heartbreak and i hope you and yours will heal soon. :hug:
 
Omg! I'm so sorry Red. He was very lucky to have had a great family that took care of him in his time of need.

Bug Hugs to you adn your family :hug: my prayers go to all of you and Rhett and like the fortume cookie says your kindness will be repaid:)
 



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