This will SHOCK and HORRIFY you!!!!

tiggersmom2

<font color=navy>Can think for herself<br><font co
Joined
Aug 13, 2003
Messages
8,599
Ok guys...I'm fixin' to provide the entertainment for the night to go along with your cocktail....so pull up a chair. :p


A couple of weeks ago I told y'all about my depraved neighbors...we went to a Labor Day party here at the subdivision, and to make a long story short....the couples near our age were all swapping partners and spit! :eek:

Well, it was SOOOOO bad...not just a kiss (as if that isn't bad enough! :rolleyes: ) that I decided it would not be a good idea if my kids went over to these people's houses (b/c if they do that in the open what in GOD'S name do they do at home!!!!!) I was contemplating TELLING them what I thought of them if they asked why my kids were not coming over.....but Serena's post convinced me that it would be futile.


I have been talking to my Mom over the cell phone and telling her about these going on's.....and we are BOTH in agreement. Well, one of the "mother's" that participated in this "manage trois" or whatever you want to call it decide to pay me a visit tonight! She was OBVIOUSLY drunk.....go figure! :rolleyes:


She proceeded to tell me how she owned a scanner and heard all my nasty little comments about her.....I said "Yeah....and..." She next tells me that she has informed her kids to call my son the ******** FAT kid! :mad: Yes, my oldest son is a TAD overweight.....but nothing to worry about....he is 115 lbs and 5 feet tall. He is also in private school and earning all As.....there is nothing wrong with my baby!!!!


At first I wanted to punch her lights out (I have had a VERY stressful week with the death of one of my beloved cats and the near death of another)....but thought better of it....and told her to go attend to whatever man was waiting for her! :mad:

Anyway, I come back inside and tell my oldest son that we are playing video games tonight and ordering pizza....he was happy. I called my Mom (on PLUG IN THE WALL phone) and related the story to her....she was BEYOND horrified and said we should put the house up for sale immediately.


Honestly, I am caught somewhere between horrified shock and amusement....I am not selling my house b/c it will be PAID OFF in 10 years, and whose to say if I move to a more expensive and nicer subdivision that we won't have these FREAKS there?! :confused3 I also don't feel bad for any loser that has to resort to listening to cell phone conversations on their scanners. :rolleyes:

My only concern is how to protect my son.....he goes to a private school in the town over so he doesn't have contact with these kids at school. I am just worried about what will happen when he sees them at the pavilion here or the pool and tries to play. :guilty:

Ugh!!!! Nice sticky and nasty situation....what do you guys think? :teeth:
 
A very similar thing happened to a friend of my (without the phone call part). I thought it was so strange when all of the sudden one day their house was for sale and they were moving before the house actually sold--then she told me the story of the neighbor.

I think I would want to move-especially since it is possibly going to effect your child(ren).

I am so sorry, I understand why you don't want to move (and you did nothing wrong and should not have to move!!)

Good Luck!
Christy
 
OMG!!! How nasty and horrible!

Oh you poor kid, just talk to him and tell him not to hang out with the kids bcs there mean or something!

Sorry!
 
How awful!!
I say give it time. I think you'll make a better decision when you aren't as angry/upset. You'll also see how things go with your son. I tend to obsess when things like this happen. Take it from the pro, it doesn't help (and will drive your husband insane).

Good luck, hope things work out.
 

So sorry. I think I may have punched her as well, you've got an amazing amount of restraint. Do WHATEVER is necessary to protect your son from these lunatics.
 
The nerve!! She is nuts if she thinks your kid is overweight. Your son is by no means overweight. I am 5' 2" and weigh 115 lbs.
 
doxdogy said:
The nerve!! She is nuts if she thinks your kid is overweight. Your son is by no means overweight. I am 5' 2" and weigh 115 lbs.


I don't think he is overweight but he is "stocky" (lots of muscle - great football player :) )and I reckon that is why this heifer called him fat. :confused3
 
The title of your thread stopped my heart, I thought something else happened to Haze! I have a one-track mind, you see. :)

Wow, your neighbor is a LOSE-R!! I think I would have had to knock her lights out when she insulted your kid and said what she did. It's one thing to have a fight between two adults, but don't go dragging innocent kids into it. That says all you need to know about her. NO class at all. No doubt she kicks puppies, too.

She's probably mad because now she KNOWS you & DH will not be joining them for any escapades. Ha, disappointment brings out the WORST in some people.

Hopefully it was just the booze talking. 5 feet and 115 is NOT fat. What a *****.
 
I can't think of anything more awful than living in a house that you are paying your hard earned money for and having idiots for neighbors-possibly dangerous idiots, at that. I have been so blessed to have lived in three houses with the most wonderful neighbors I could ever imagine. I would be miserable living in a situation like you described...I wouldn't want to move, but I would probably be thinking about it every time they pissed me off.

Maybe they will move - is that too much to wish for??

Good luck to you!
 
I am completely SHOCKED and HORRIFIED!!!! :rotfl: Sorry, I couldn't help myself. I can't believe people act this way!! How could a grown woman tell her kids to treat your DS that way, what kind of people are her kids going to grow up to be
 
alliecats said:
The title of your thread stopped my heart, I thought something else happened to Haze! I have a one-track mind, you see. :)


Haze is doing GREAT...took him to the vet today and his kidneys are doing even better!!!!! They are functioning at 60% which is terrific!!!! :cloud9:

I really did have to restrain myself against that woman...but somehow I found the strength.
 
Is listening to private phone conversations legal?

If it was just me with no kids, I'd be staying there and calling everyone I know and talking about these people, so they could sit there my their scanner and fume. It would entertain me, but I have a warped sense of humor.

But with kids, I would think about how any of this might affect them. Do they go to the same school? If you are not letting them associate with these kids, will they see them anywhere? Do they have mutual friends? Are they old enough to understand, without the gory details, that the neighbors have problems and that they may get picked on because of that, and nothing the kids themselves have done?

If I thought it was going to cause a great hardship on my children, I would consider moving, but I would not think about it while I was emotional, and would not make any rash decisions.
 
tiggersmom2 said:
Haze is doing GREAT...took him to the vet today and his kidneys are doing even better!!!!! They are functioning at 60% which is terrific!!!! :cloud9:

I really did have to restrain myself against that woman...but somehow I found the strength.


YAY! I am so glad. Has your bad vet responded to any of the info your good vet sent her? What did your lawyer say?

As bad as the first part of this week was, if she had pulled this a few days earlier no doubt she would have gotten a beatdown for her trouble!
 
alliecats said:
YAY! I am so glad. Has your bad vet responded to any of the info your good vet sent her? What did your lawyer say?

As bad as the first part of this week was, if she had pulled this a few days earlier no doubt she would have gotten a beatdown for her trouble!


I'll update the OP.....I am happy with the outcome. :)
 
wdwmom2 said:
Did he sound sincere???? Or did he seem to want to make a quick mean stab at your son???? Oh, I would have been sooo interested in what he had to say!!!!!! Who knows, maybe he thinks he own parents are wacko.

:grouphug: to you. Your neighbors sound like a bunch of fruitcakes. I would stay far away from them. Are all your neighbor's like this, or just a select group???


Actually, the little boy DID sound sincere and I would have let him talk to Shane if he told me WHAT he wanted....he wouldn't.


There are about 10 couples around my age 30 -40 that act like this.....I just can't fathom it!!!! I was a SORORITY girl and these people make our college parties look like child's play!!!!! :bitelip: UGH....ugh, ugh, ugh!!!! If it isn't one thing..it is another!!!!! :sad2:
 
Maybe this is why that obnoxious vet (who appears to have atoned for the treatment of Myst, btw) was so obnoxious-she's friends with the heifer?

Suzanne
 
Hmmmmmm.....half my freakin' posts have been edited and a lot of my responses b/c some good pious disers (probably pious like my neighbors) were offended . Grow up...there are things worse in life than CT!
 
I thought the party sounded bizarre! I didn't think it could be any crazier. Now this!

I'm amazed.

It would be great if the neighbor's kids didn't want to play her dirty little game. It would be great if they were stand up kids and knew their parents were fruity.

I'd be monitoring everything and evaluating whether it would be worthwhile to stay in the neighborhood. 10 couples is alot. She'll probably spread the word about what you think. It could get unpleasant for the whole family. :sad2: :sad2:

I swear this situation sounds like the beginings of a Stephen King novel. Twisted!!
 
I would drown the wench. :earboy2: Seriously though, attack me if you're pissed, but leave my kids out of it. :mad:

So happy to hear Haze is doing much better. :goodvibes :hug:
 
If you would like to have some fun call a real state agent and tell them that you are looking to sale your house and would like for them to come by and take a look and talk with you. Give them her address and name. Next I would limit where my son went in the neighborhood and have him to ask his friends to my house and I would put on the dog to where my house is where the kids would want to go. You have all the control when they are under your roof. This way you don’t haft to go into details with your son. I would still look around for someplace else to move to because even a paid for house in a bad neighborhood is not what a happy family needs they need a happy home even if it does take you an extra 5 yrs. To pay for it.
 


Disney Vacation Planning. Free. Done for You.
Our Authorized Disney Vacation Planners are here to provide personalized, expert advice, answer every question, and uncover the best discounts. Let Dreams Unlimited Travel take care of all the details, so you can sit back, relax, and enjoy a stress-free vacation.
Start Your Disney Vacation
Disney EarMarked Producer






DIS Facebook DIS youtube DIS Instagram DIS Pinterest DIS Tiktok DIS Twitter

Add as a preferred source on Google

Back
Top Bottom