this was cute. help?

[life of the party]

If you didn't read on my other thread about the homecoming guy here's a recap:

-my friend asked this guy i know to go to homecoming with me, via text message on my phone
-he said yes
-then said maybe


i thought that was pretty rude, and haven't talked to him in a couple of days.

then tonight, i was in my room and got a text message from him (i wasn't talking to him or anything)

"i'm still thinking about going to homecoming with you, i didn't forget"
(well, not with that good of grammar xD)

so obviously he has been thinking about me & the sittuation for awhile. he really isn't the kind of guy that would do something like that. honestly, after he said 'maybe' i thought he would have totally forgotten about it and not have given it another thought.

so now i'm thinking maybe he has a legit reason not to go? idk.


opinions?

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Hmm..

You think that he's taken so long to answer, cause there's another girl that he might be considering too. If so, I wouldn't get into all that. Don't waste your time waiting for a guy that has a decide between you and another girl.

If it's something else.. I mean I don't know really what else would be taking him so long. It's just a homecoming dance, it's not like you asked him to marry you. lol.

My advise. Give him till Saturday night, then tell him that you're not trying to rush him, but you don't want to wait till the last minute for him to say no, and you left dateless for your homecoming dance.

 

[DramaQueen]

personally, if i got a text that said 'i'm still THINKING about going to homecoming with you' i'd be pretty piossssed! lol that's just me though.
I'd be like, what's the friggin think about it's yes or no!!

Personally Katie, I dunno how you feel about this guy, if you really have a big crush on him you can wait, but if not I'd just be like PEACE! Imma go find a new date.

Maybe since I don't know this dude I'm taking it wrong but it sounds rude to me personally. What's taking so long?? Doesn't he realize what a hot piece you are?!

 

[Disney Dork]

You know? I would give him time, just because it's near to impossible to know exactly what's going on in his life atm. And you know? What if he's not a total fan of going to a dance, but he's thinking about going because he likes you? You wouldn't know for sure unless you could read his mind, which is pretty impossible atm.

So...when is the dance? Because, I'd probably give him until about 2-3 weeks before (just so you would have the time to find another date if you wanted one), and then, if he doesn't say anything after that period of time has passed, put him over the flame until he gives you a definite yes or no.

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

If you really like him I would give him some time. Then before it gets to close to the dance ask him his answer, and tell him that you have someone who would want to go with you, if he doesn't (jealousy )

 

[Sparx]

personally, if i got a text that said 'i'm still THINKING about going to homecoming with you' i'd be pretty piossssed! lol that's just me though.
I'd be like, what's the friggin think about it's yes or no!!

Personally Katie, I dunno how you feel about this guy, if you really have a big crush on him you can wait, but if not I'd just be like PEACE! Imma go find a new date.

Maybe since I don't know this dude I'm taking it wrong but it sounds rude to me personally. What's taking so long?? Doesn't he realize what a hot piece you are?!

i feel the same way.

 

[life of the party]

the dance is october 24th so there isn't much of a rush.


he really isn't one to go to formal-y dances, so not his thing. it took him forever to decide to go to our send off dance last year (he was so against going until, like, two days before the dance). and his life is kind of .. crazy. so that's why i'm thinking he may have a good reason to be acting weirdly.

i'm going to text him and tell him i need to know soon.


and caitlin, ikr? i can't think of a single other girl that can compare to THIS! hahaha!

 

[cindys_castle2011]

personally, if i got a text that said 'i'm still THINKING about going to homecoming with you' i'd be pretty piossssed! lol that's just me though.
I'd be like, what's the friggin think about it's yes or no!!

Personally Katie, I dunno how you feel about this guy, if you really have a big crush on him you can wait, but if not I'd just be like PEACE! Imma go find a new date.

Maybe since I don't know this dude I'm taking it wrong but it sounds rude to me personally. What's taking so long?? Doesn't he realize what a hot piece you are?!

totally agree,

You know? I would give him time, just because it's near to impossible to know exactly what's going on in his life atm. And you know? What if he's not a total fan of going to a dance, but he's thinking about going because he likes you? You wouldn't know for sure unless you could read his mind, which is pretty impossible atm.

So...when is the dance? Because, I'd probably give him until about 2-3 weeks before (just so you would have the time to find another date if you wanted one), and then, if he doesn't say anything after that period of time has passed, put him over the flame until he gives you a definite yes or no.

the dance is october 24th so there isn't much of a rush.


he really isn't one to go to formal-y dances, so not his thing. it took him forever to decide to go to our send off dance last year (he was so against going until, like, two days before the dance). and his life is kind of .. crazy. so that's why i'm thinking he may have a good reason to be acting weirdly.

i'm going to text him and tell him i need to know soon.


and caitlin, ikr? i can't think of a single other girl that can compare to THIS! hahaha!

If there is ANY kind of drama or whatever in his life, I really wouldn't wanna get into it. Unless you like have a HUGE crush on him.

I wouldn't wanna get into someone that has drama going on in their life. Believe it or not, if you do.. it'll probably have a big affect on your life, or yall's relationship, friend-wise or more.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Yeah, I really wouldn't get into all that. I would just go with somebody else.

 

[kelly7ak]

let me get this straight ...

this guy only seemed interested after being prodded by another friend? He didn't initiate any of this himself?

and all of this has taken place via texting?

maybe it's just me ... but ...

texting?

I know it's easy to do, and possibly cheaper because of a phone plan, but what happened to live conversation? like face to face? or even over the phone (after all, it IS a phone!)?

I wouldn't go out with anyone who can't work up the 'courage' to talk to me face to face. Sorry.

 

[My Wild Love]

personally, if i got a text that said 'i'm still THINKING about going to homecoming with you' i'd be pretty piossssed! lol that's just me though.
I'd be like, what's the friggin think about it's yes or no!!

Personally Katie, I dunno how you feel about this guy, if you really have a big crush on him you can wait, but if not I'd just be like PEACE! Imma go find a new date.

Maybe since I don't know this dude I'm taking it wrong but it sounds rude to me personally. What's taking so long?? Doesn't he realize what a hot piece you are?!

I agree I would be so mad at that guy. I still say move along.

What if he is seeing if something better will come along?

 

[tinkerbell12]

I wouldn't waste my time on him.
If he has to "think" about it, he's probably trying to keep his options open until the last minute.
He may tell you last minute or he may tell the other girl(s) last minute.
And really, he seems like kind of a jerk for making you wait this whole time, and the maybe thing.

Honestly, you can do better than that Katie

 

[life of the party]

i'm so done with waiting, not worth it.

let me get this straight ...

this guy only seemed interested after being prodded by another friend? He didn't initiate any of this himself?

and all of this has taken place via texting?

maybe it's just me ... but ...

texting?

I know it's easy to do, and possibly cheaper because of a phone plan, but what happened to live conversation? like face to face? or even over the phone (after all, it IS a phone!)?

I wouldn't go out with anyone who can't work up the 'courage' to talk to me face to face. Sorry.

he didn't know it was 'prodded' by another friend, because it was on my phone.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Hope you find a better date, Katie.
I wouldn't have wasted my time on it either.

 

[life of the party]

Hope you find a better date, Katie.
I wouldn't have wasted my time on it either.

thanks
i might just go alone.

i didn't want a date in the first place, haha .

who knows ?
i'm just frustrated at this point.

 

[Kit Kat]

personally, if i got a text that said 'i'm still THINKING about going to homecoming with you' i'd be pretty piossssed! lol that's just me though.
I'd be like, what's the friggin think about it's yes or no!!

Personally Katie, I dunno how you feel about this guy, if you really have a big crush on him you can wait, but if not I'd just be like PEACE! Imma go find a new date.

Maybe since I don't know this dude I'm taking it wrong but it sounds rude to me personally. What's taking so long?? Doesn't he realize what a hot piece you are?!

This. He needs a Yes or No. It is very disrespectful to you leaving you up in the air.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

let me get this straight ...

this guy only seemed interested after being prodded by another friend? He didn't initiate any of this himself?

and all of this has taken place via texting?

maybe it's just me ... but ...

texting?

I know it's easy to do, and possibly cheaper because of a phone plan, but what happened to live conversation? like face to face? or even over the phone (after all, it IS a phone!)?

I wouldn't go out with anyone who can't work up the 'courage' to talk to me face to face. Sorry.

Ehh , believe it or not.. no one really does that anymore . It's just easier to do it via text .

I mean, I asked my current boyfriend if he liked me over text . And look a year later we're still together , so I'm thinking it worked pretty well .

thanks
i might just go alone.

i didn't want a date in the first place, haha .

who knows ?
i'm just frustrated at this point.

Ahww , Katie . Can I be your homecoming date ?

 

[Sparx]

Ehh , believe it or not.. no one really does that anymore . It's just easier to do it via text .

I mean, I asked my current boyfriend if he liked me over text . And look a year later we're still together , so I'm thinking it worked pretty well .



Ahww , Katie . Can I be your homecoming date ?

i disagree. i dated all through high school, and i've had a cell phone since i was like 13, but i have never ever ever went out with someone who texted me about it. i had six or seven substantial relationships throughout high school, and i was always approached in person.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

i disagree. i dated all through high school, and i've had a cell phone since i was like 13, but i have never ever ever went out with someone who texted me about it. i had six or seven substantial relationships throughout high school, and i was always approached in person.

Ahh

Maybe it is pretty much like that with me, since I'm home-schooled.

I don't go to school, so there really isn't a way a see me unless we hang out..