Shleedogg
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I think it just all comes down to what your priorities are. I think that amount of money on beer is ridiculous. DH and I don't smoke or drink. I might have the occasional glass of wine or cocktail at dinner once or twice a year, but I've been pregnant or nursing for almost 3 years now and will be for another 2 so it's not an expense for us now. It's just not something that's very important to me. It's more important for me to have a 2nd car that is reliable and meets our needs for space (we just bought a 2009 Honda Odyssey), or to go to Disney 2 times a year. We don't really splurge on much throughout the year other than Disney.
One of DH's brothers is in a very tight financial position with his girlfriend and their 2 girls. They couldn't afford formula or diapers when the girls were young, they still have trouble affording groceries. MIL takes them grocery shopping and used to buy the diapers and formula. Yet, they always have beer and cigarettes and the girlfriend always has her nails done. People have different priorities. They always say how rich we are and must be nice to go to Disney so much and they wish they could afford to take the girls. If we spent a ton of money on beer and cigarettes, we couldn't afford to go to Disney either.
It's not wrong, if that's where they want to spend their money and they can afford it, that's fine. It's just not where I or you, OP, would choose to spend our money.
One of DH's brothers is in a very tight financial position with his girlfriend and their 2 girls. They couldn't afford formula or diapers when the girls were young, they still have trouble affording groceries. MIL takes them grocery shopping and used to buy the diapers and formula. Yet, they always have beer and cigarettes and the girlfriend always has her nails done. People have different priorities. They always say how rich we are and must be nice to go to Disney so much and they wish they could afford to take the girls. If we spent a ton of money on beer and cigarettes, we couldn't afford to go to Disney either.
It's not wrong, if that's where they want to spend their money and they can afford it, that's fine. It's just not where I or you, OP, would choose to spend our money.