We spent some time in DC this summer with 3 teenage boys while visiting colleges. We stayed with my cousin in Alexandria, so I can't help with hotels, but I can tell you some of the highlights. Watch "National Treasure" before you go - DS12 begged to go to the National Archives and the Library of Congress after watching this movie - and we're so happy we listened to him. We had been to DC a few years ago and saw most of the monuments then, so we focused on other things this time.
Our favorites:
Ford's Theater - where President Lincoln was shot (be sure to go to the ranger presentation and the small museum in the basement) - FREE
National Archives - houses many original documents including the Declaration of Independence (FREE)
Library of Congress - absolutely amazing - try to go on a tour - FREE
United States Capitol building - arrange tour through your congressman - FREE
Holocaust Museum - extremely well done and very moving - FREE (however, I ordered timed tickets ahead of time online for $1.50 each which was well worth it during busy season)
Washington Memorial - last time we were in DC it was under repair and the kids wanted to go up to the top. Again, you can order tickets online for a small fee which helps during busy seasons - FREE
Washington National Cathedral - we took a taxi, but DS14 really wanted to go here. The architecture is amazing - we took a tour (donation) which was very informative.
WWII Memorial - this was new since we'd been to DC previously and DS14 is a big WWII history buff. Very nice - FREE
Lincoln Memorial at night - beautiful! FREE
So-So sights (in our opinion):
International Spy Museum - this was one of the few things we had to pay for and didn't feel it was really worth it. If your kids like James Bond movies they might like it - we probably wouldn't go back. $$
Smithsonian Air & Space Museum - people rave about this but it was only okay for my kids. The best part was the AC because we were there during a heat wave. They didn't want to go to any other Smithsonians after that. FREE
Restaurants:
Hard Rock Cafe - right next to Ford's Theater - the kids loved it!
ESPN Zone - the boys were in heaven (I think DH was too) - all big sports enthusiasts, they loved the wall of TVs and the one at our booth! It's also like a Dave & Buster's with arcade games.
Capital City Brewing Co.- this was DH's choice but we all enjoyed it - in the old post office building.
We did all of this in 2 1/2 days (we like to keep busy) and it was great. If you want to tour the White House, call your Congressman's office now - we called too close to our dates to be able to get a tour. We didn't do the zoo since it was so hot (106 plus humidity!). There's so much to do and I just planned things in clusters based on their location. My boys are not into shopping, so we didn't do any. Hotels and food will be your main expenses - as you can see, most attractions are FREE - which is amazing!!!!!
Be prepared for security checks everywhere you go - TRAVEL LIGHT!! DS17 and I had to drink from our open water bottles at the Holocaust museum - ????