Things I am noticing about myself...

[Youdontknowme]

I have been making observations lately about who I am, who I've become, and/or becoming. What I see is bothing me but I don't know how to change these traits, some I really do think I get from my mother (who I love dearly).

*I am NOSEY!!! I will peek out my blinds at people, listen in on conversations, ect

*I butt my nose in where it doesn't belong, I guess this goes with my first trait but I get in others business when I don't need to be

*I gossip...A LOT...work, family, neighbors, movie stars...it doesn't matter

*I have no backbone. I basically will go along with whoever is there or talking at the time and then later agree with someone else which may be the complete opposite (basically two faced)

* I can have an attitude quickly for no reason or decide I don't like someone before I even know them

I am basically a busybody and don't know how to change or if I even can Any suggestions?????

 

[LindsayDunn228]

Yes, tell us who you REALLY are

 

[Cantw8]

well, now that you mention it...I have noticed these things about you, I was just too polite to say anything

 

[Bob Slydell]

 

[disneymama73]

 

[sugarpie]

Are you offended by yourself? Or others???

 

[hiwaygal]

take a couple of these and none of this will bother you anymore

well, it might, but you won't really care

 

[Frantasmic]

Some of those problems, if you really want to change them, involve changing the crowd you run with who SHARES your gossip and enables your other actions. You change your opinion on a whim to garner favor with others.

The rest are up to you. You don't "accidentally" become nosey or a busybody.

And changing isn't easy, but it starts with examining your motivations and expected outcomes. Whose favor are you garnering? Are you a nosey gossip because you feel you have powere over others knowing certain things or because it gains you favor in the group of people you reside with?

If you have children, do they pick up your habits? If so, do you want them too? If not, change for their sake.

 

[hlane]

 

[Uncle Remus]

well, now that you mention it...I have noticed these things about you, I was just too polite to say anything

Too dang funny

 

[Kimberly815]

take a couple of these and none of this will bother you anymore

well, it might, but you won't really care

I need to pick up a bottle of chill pills, and have them on hand to give out to people I meet on the street who really need them! It would be a public service!!

 

[FreshTressa]

Well...the first step is to admit you have a problem...

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Nice to meet you, nosey!

Oh, and I think we doknowyou.

 

[Disney4Drew]

Thanks for sharing...

 

[L107ANGEL]

well, now that you mention it...I have noticed these things about you, I was just too polite to say anything