I've posted a couple times on this already, but ironically this just came up again last night! We had dinner with another couple, and told them about our recent trip to WDW. "Just the two of you!?!???" But she hasn't been there since she was kid. Stayed down on I drive somewhere and went to MK a couple days. So, yea, in her mind it's a glorified Six Flags. The husband has never been there.
We went on to explain how we went to a different restaurant every day for lunch and dinner, and told them about some of them. DH went golfing at a world class course. Showed them pics of our resort. "WOW...THAT's Disney World???" By the end of dinner they were talking about trying it out some day.
That wasn't my intent. I stopped trying to "talk someone into WDW" many years ago. I was simply telling them about our trip, why we love it, etc. Even my DH chimed in on why he loves it. (And most of his reasons are very different than mine.) He doesn't wear the hats or get exited by the characters, etc. But he loves the resort, restaurants, how clean everything is, how friendly the CMs are, etc.
So, no, I will never say I went somewhere else or get defensive about going there. If a friend or family member is truly interested in knowing, I will tell them. If someone is snotty about it, I return the favor. All- inclusive in Cancun?? Ewwwww the 90s called, they're looking for their vacation.