Well I kinda just realized that I really have to be careful how I handle all of this stuff cuz the guy who I'm really close with has a little sister and it seems like she really likes talking and hanging out with me and she looks up to me. And I don't wanna set a bad example for her and I don't want her to think all this stuff is ok to do cuz it's not and I don't want her to have to go through his kinda stuff