The Bachelor - Ben??? No spoilers

[lisaviolet]

Well I feel a tad insensitive and evil - but I am kind of looking forward to seeing if Ben's level of angst is throwing himself on the balcony tear flowing level. I mean this is not Juan Pablo telling two women he loves them This is integrity filled , chocolate covered, sweet as pie Ben. **** just might hit that fan. This just might be the most dramatic episode ever! Laughing Loudly.

 

[FINFAN]

Well I feel a tad insensitive and evil - but I am kind of looking forward to seeing if Ben's level of angst is throwing himself on the balcony tear flowing level. I mean this is not Juan Pablo telling two women he loves them This is integrity filled , chocolate covered, sweet as pie Ben. **** just might hit that fan. This just might be the most dramatic episode ever! Laughing Loudly.

If you watched the After The Rose Live , the first one at the start of the season, Ben looked pretty drained~ no spray tan (or real) , bags under the eyes, stressed look on his face. Either he was extremely focused on not messing up and blowing his contract or he did indeed stress over the show. I know he had been traveling for all sorts of promos, but man, he did not look like someone "beaming" in love, at all~ lol.

 

[FINFAN]

bumping up for tonight~

 

[Disneylover99]

The Fantasy Suite dates.
Tonight's the night.

 

[FINFAN]

The Fantasy Suite dates.
Tonight's the night.

uggghhh...I jinxed myself by bumping the thread. Have to run out and won't be back 'till it's 1/2 over, Love the DVR tho! Will catch up with the thread later as I dont want to read posts before I can watch. Have fun!

 

[Disneylover99]

Well, he just dropped the L bomb with Lauren.

 

[McKelly]

Well, he just dropped the L bomb with Lauren.

and with JoJo!

 

[Disneylover99]

and with JoJo!

I guess that rules out Caila.

 

[mnrose]

Yes, that's pretty obvious. Poor Caila. Watching this back must be very disheartening to her. He tells the other two he loves them, and talks about choosing between two, but she's easy.

 

[piglet too]

I don't think Caila is as in to him as the other two. I felt like she was "talking the talk".

If he doesn't pick Jojo (and I've felt he was going to pick Lauren) she is going to be crushed. Hearing the "I love you" like that, wow, either girl is going to be devastated.

 

[mnrose]

Yes, that's pretty terrible. Somebody is going to be crushed. I now understand the wisdom of production strongly encouraging the lead not to use the "L" word.....very confusing. Two women in two days. Makes no sense to me what so-freaking-ever.

And, what effect does that have on the future relationship? He can't even say "I only said it to you." Ugh. I would want to know, if I were picked, that his love for me was so different than any other contestant....not that I was "in love" with two people. To me, that would say that he really isn't all that in to me.

 

[Lucky'sMom]

This is going to be the hardest, worst final rose ceremony. I'm sure neither Jojo nor Lauren could possibly imagine that he told two of them that he loves them. They both are certain now that they are the final one. He should have kept his feelings in check until he gives out the final rose, one girl will be completely blindsided.

 

[Disneylover99]

Maybe the one he chose is watching this now and dumping his wishy washy butt.

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

Yes, that's pretty terrible. Somebody is going to be crushed. I now understand the wisdom of production strongly encouraging the lead not to use the "L" word.....very confusing. Two women in two days. Makes no sense to me what so-freaking-ever.

And, what effect does that have on the future relationship? He can't even say "I only said it to you." Ugh. I would want to know, if I were picked, that his love for me was so different than any other contestant....not that I was "in love" with two people. To me, that would say that he really isn't all that in to me.

At this point in the franchise, I wouldn't be at all surprised if he had been encouraged to say it, and to two women. The script of this "reality" show is pretty repetitive season to season. They have to give us SOMETHING to feel the drama. Then he'll just tell the final rose woman that he had to say it, but it really was all about her. IMO

I would not be surprised if it's not Caila going home, just because they're so good at manipulating the editing.

 

[katie01]

This is so awkward. He seemed like a decent guy before, but this whole episode has made him seem about as sensitive as Juan Pablo

 

[Disneylover99]

I would not be surprised if it's not Caila going home, just because they're so good at manipulating the editing.

Well that would be an interesting twist.

 

[FINFAN]

just got caught up...well, well,well Ben. Me thinks you may be on your own at the end of all this. Either Lauren or JoJo finds out he told the other he loves them and one of them leaves on their own.

 

[Disneylover99]

Caila's taking this well. I guess she knows she'll probably be the next Bachelorette.

Whoops, I spoke to soon as she jumps out of the car.

 

[FINFAN]

does Ben's rolling eye blink bug anyone else?

 

[Disneylover99]

At least the rose ceremony should be easy.