I haven't read all the pages of this thread, but from those I have read it seems most people side with Rebecca. Even though I agree that Adam is a wussy mama's boy and isn't very assertive, I think Rebecca can be annoying too, and in fact, I believe she causes him to continue in his ways. She annoys me MUCH more than Adam. I sort of laugh at Adam, but Rebecca just gets under my skin.
She had complained one time that she has to do everything herself, yet on more than one occasion it is obvious that Adam is trying very hard to take some responsibility and be the one to secure the airline tickets. However, whenever he insists on letting him help, she completely shuts him out,demeans him, and won't let him help.
What about when they were at the airport and everyone was sleeping over, waiting for the next morning's flight. Adam had quietly changed their flight to an earlier one, and when he told Rebecca, she went and blabbed to another couple. When he got mad at her, she turned it on him and made him seem like the jerk for getting mad at her. I'd have been mad too!
He made some comment to her last night and she just responded by saying, "Stop yelling at me!" I didn't really think he was yelling, just making a comment.
There are so many things here and there that Rebecca says or does to Adam that I think are unfair and then she plays as if she's the victim of the situation.
Wasn't she the one who kept yelling at him to take his sunglasses off, and caused him to leave them behind? What was up with that? Most of the other teams were wearing sunglasses. Maybe she felt she just had to pick on him about something, and since he wasn't doing anything majorly wrong that was the best she could come up with.
She's very belittling towards Adam, and thinks she is
always right about everything, which she is not.
Anyway, I just thought I'd put my two cents in about Rebecca and Adam and was curious if there are others that feel the same. I'm sorry if this topic has already been addressed, like I said I haven't read all the pages of this thread (I usually only DIS at work, so I have to limit how much time I spend!).
-Laura