Hello my dear virtual friends!
First, let me say how much I miss all of you and hope that I will be visiting with you a bit more very soon. We have finally landed in West Virginia and we're amidst boxes, boxes, boxes. We sold so much of our furniture and storage things (plus we had a lot of built ins) so we have the need to go to IKEA in Pittsburgh to make some purchases today.
Marshay, I have been so anxious to know if you are expecting. I didn't want to ask in case it was a difficult subject but when I logged on and saw your "baby time line" my heart jumped for joy! I'm so very excited and happy for you.
Everyone else, I have not had any time to read and catch up so if I've missed anything super duper important, fun, or exciting will someone let me know?
Here is a quick update. The movers loaded on July 9-10 and delivered everything on July 15th. Jeff and I stayed here a few days to tie up some loose ends and unpack just a very few things. Then we drove back to Indiana on July 18th and flew out to Phoenix to be with my family and help with my Mom. Jeff and Bobbie came back to Indiana on the 29th and Katie and I stayed in Phoenix. We were supposed to stay 3 weeks and come back on the 9th. On the 8th, my mom woke up feeling awful. We took her to the doctor's office and he thought she should probably be admitted to the hospital. Very long ordeal made short, she ended up in the ER and at the wrong hospital due to an ambulance driver who was incredibly idiotic. She was there for about 6 hours. After about 5 hours she had a grand mal seizure as I was holding her hand. Things continued downhill from there. They finally got her moved to the correct hospital and she had 3 more grand mal seizures for a total of 4 in 3.5 hours. The doctor suspected that the cancer had spread to her brain. My sister, Dad and I made the decision to move mom to an in-patient hospice on Saturday the 9th. Mom passed away peacefully on Wednesday August 13th. It's been hard in so many ways, but I've had such a revelation about personal suffering (not mine, but my mother's). It's given me great peace.
We then flew back to Indiana to get our van and the dogs and landed here in Morgantown on the 23rd. Katie started middle school on the 26th and my in-laws came that same day for a house hunting trip. I love them and I'm so glad they are here, but we're in a real mess and I'm not the best hostess right now.
As always, I apologize that my few and far between posts are all about me. It won't always be that way, I promise. Know that I think of you often and WILL be back as a permanent member of our fun family!
Love to you all....
Suz
P.S. In mid July we booked a January trip to Disney for 7 nights followed by a 3 day
Disney cruise (we're going with Balloon Guy and his family). This was of course before my mom passed away and now I really feel like this family time will be much needed.
S