Tell or don't tell?

[Huit]

If you knew a single woman (or man) was planning on trying to seduce a married man (or woman), would you tell the husband or wife?

 

[imabrat]

Personally, I would say nothing. You said planning on the single persons part. They have not succeeded, if they will succeed at all. It would be none of my business to let a spouse know that their significant other was being hit on.

The only way I would tell a spouse is if an affair WAS going on. I would try to have some evidence too if I could.

 

[Sparx]

i would only say something if i could 100% prove that something had happened.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Like Shelby said, I would only tell if I actually saw something happening or I could prove something was happening.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I'm not sure I would tell, even if the affair was going on. It's none of my business, and in my experience, sometimes the person being cheated on doesn't really want to know.

 

[inlalaland]

Hm, I think it depends on how close I am to the husband/wife being cheated on. If it was one of my close friends, I would definitely tell them.

 

[Pearls]

Depends on if I'm closer to the wife(or husband) or the single woman (or man).

 

[Huit]

Thank you all for your opinions. =)

 

[MushuGirl06]

i would say something only if they were close to me like
my best friends or family
if it was just like someone i knew threw the grape vine then no i would not say anything

 

[AMVmom]

Depends on the relationship between you and the seducer and the married person. If the married person was a friend or close family member I would say or hint at something. If I am not close to them I feel it would be none of my business.

 

[goofysk8]

I would probably tell he or she. Although, they should almost get the hint from one enother anyways.