Tell him? Tell him not? URGH!

[shellybellypolo]

Ok so as most of you know, I've liked this guy named Connor for 2 years now. All of my friends on here (that go on chat) say I should tell him how I feel.

I would... if he wasn't swarmed by his popular friends 24/7.

I feel like I never have a chance to tell him. All his "cool" friends are around him at school and I haven't really ever seen him out of school. But the one time I did (at a Carnival) he won me a stuffed animal, which really perked up my hopes.

But these days *sigh* I really just don't know.

Should I tell him?
If so, when and how should I approach it?
Are you in a similar situation, or have any advice?

 

[PurpleDucky]

Should I tell him? You already know my answer dear.
If so, when and how should I approach it? Ask him during lunch, or in-between classes. Whenever he isn't around his friends take the chance to immediately confront him
Are you in a similar situation, or have any advice? Yes. Just gave ya some

 

[BabyPiglet]

Heh, I think I've given you advice on him before.

Anyways, just be honest about it. If it were me, I'd try to tell him straight out. Be clear and strong, most guys love a powerful women. If you aren't, it could make the situation awkward and well...I think you just want to avoid that!

Catch him right after class ends and pull him away for a minute. As he's throwing his lunch away and you notice his friends have already left him. You see him walking out of the bathroom, snag him up before his friends see him.

Good luck! :

 

[CheezDoodle]

Flirt with him! Start hanging around his group of friends. Get them all to like you too and think you're fun to hang out with. It scares a lot of guys when somebody they hardly know comes up and is like 'hi I like you', and then they don't know if they like you, because they don't know you.

Be sweet and compliment him, joke with him, find common interests like books or sports... Anyway, flirting's fun.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

I have been in a similar situation. (So has my BFF)
Tell. Him.
It's really for the better. Granted, he might not feel the same way about you.
Then again, you never know! He just might. And let me tell you, it feels like a big weight has been taken off your chest when you tell someone something as big as that. Then, you won't have to go with the "What if I told him? Would we have become something?"
Unfortunatly, it didn't work out for me and my crush when I told him--but we became good friends after that (we still are).
Go for it!

 

[shellybellypolo]

Flirt with him! Start hanging around his group of friends. Get them all to like you too and think you're fun to hang out with. It scares a lot of guys when somebody they hardly know comes up and is like 'hi I like you', and then they don't know if they like you, because they don't know you.

Be sweet and compliment him, joke with him, find common interests like books or sports... Anyway, flirting's fun.

Sorry, I ceased to elaborate.
He doesn't like me.
Never did from Day 1.
He's had some really nice and amazing moments.
But this year, it's fading.

And it sucks, because I want to get over him. He's a jerk, his friends are bigger jerks, and here I am caught up in this. If I try to ask to talk to him, he'll be like "Eww no get away from me"

I'm hopeless.
And fat.
Hopeless and fat.

You'll never believe how many dresses I tried on today and all of them made me look like some fat bimbo you'd see in the subways.

 

[crazytp93]

Sorry, I ceased to elaborate.
He doesn't like me.
Never did from Day 1.
He's had some really nice and amazing moments.
But this year, it's fading.

And it sucks, because I want to get over him. He's a jerk, his friends are bigger jerks, and here I am caught up in this. If I try to ask to talk to him, he'll be like "Eww no get away from me"

I'm hopeless.
And fat.
Hopeless and fat.

You'll never believe how many dresses I tried on today and all of them made me look like some fat bimbo you'd see in the subways.

This is coming from a guy's perspective.

If he does not like you, then he probably will not change his mind. But, maybe if you spend more time with him as friends, he may get to like you. Of course, the chances of this happening are slim, but you really will never know unless you have tried. If he doesn't like you, then move on, there are other people out there.

Hope this helped, and good luck.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Sorry, I ceased to elaborate.
He doesn't like me.
Never did from Day 1.
He's had some really nice and amazing moments.
But this year, it's fading.

And it sucks, because I want to get over him. He's a jerk, his friends are bigger jerks, and here I am caught up in this. If I try to ask to talk to him, he'll be like "Eww no get away from me"

I'm hopeless.
And fat.
Hopeless and fat.

You'll never believe how many dresses I tried on today and all of them made me look like some fat bimbo you'd see in the subways.

OHHHH. See, I didn't know all this. I'd probably go up and slap him or something. But really, I wouldn't tell him. I'd try to let it fade, get him out of my thoughts.

Dear, you are so far from fat. But it doesn't matter because you're beautiful, inside and out. I hope you realize that.

 

[StitchfansJr]

This is coming from a guy's perspective.

If he does not like you, then he probably will not change his mind. But, maybe if you spend more time with him as friends, he may get to like you. Of course, the chances of this happening are slim, but you really will never know unless you have tried. If he doesn't like you, then move on, there are other people out there.

Hope this helped, and good luck.

Seriously Shelly, if Connor doesn't like you then move on. I moved on.

 

[CheezDoodle]

Sorry, I ceased to elaborate.
He doesn't like me.
Never did from Day 1.
He's had some really nice and amazing moments.
But this year, it's fading.

And it sucks, because I want to get over him. He's a jerk, his friends are bigger jerks, and here I am caught up in this. If I try to ask to talk to him, he'll be like "Eww no get away from me"

I'm hopeless.
And fat.
Hopeless and fat.

You'll never believe how many dresses I tried on today and all of them made me look like some fat bimbo you'd see in the subways.

Well.. If he really doesn't like you that much, than I guess you should just move on. There are a lot of guys in your school, I'm sure.

And I'm sure you're not fat and are very pretty.